Would you have a problem with your neighbour if they were hardly ever home?

No, it wouldn’t, shouldn’t bother anyone, I don’t think.

 

Heck, I'd be happy.

 

That's the kind of neighbor I'd want.

 

Before Corona I was that neighbor. I was constantly at work, traveling around the country, or out at some sort of Meetup event. Only home to sleep n eat.

I wish my next door neighbor was like that. He and his whole family are a bloody nuisance. I have to put up with noise, terrible smells, and the constant goings n comings of their gangster friends. Wish I could move!

 

No. You’d rather them be loud, obnoxious and ever present?

 

I actually wouldn't even reply.
My life, motives, goals and aspirations are my business and there's not a man or woman alive, other than my parents and potential employers, who have the right to know what they are.

 

Never had the raised voice and interrogation. That I would certainly ignore.

Have had a concerned friendly neighbor who was checking that I was okay. He’s someone I get along with great.

 

Do you think that your neighbor dislikes you? How would you describe yourself as a neighbor?

 

Same with me. I’ve lived on my street for eight years and I’m not on a first name basis with any of my neighbors. They probably think I’m a psychopath.

 

No, I'd be chuffed if they were never home, but that's because I bloody well hate them. Even if I didn't hate them, nobody in my neighbourhood knows me as I don't talk to anyone, and am only outside if I need to do something. I've made it a point in my life that I'm not interested in conversing unless I absolutely have to.

In all these years I never once got to "know" my neighbour as that's definitely not my thing, but honestly as long as they're not loud or arseholes what they do is none of my business, and vice versa.

 

No, I would have a problem if a neighbour harassed me. I wish our neighbours were hardly ever home because they have the tendency to complain about everything.

 

I would love neighbors who were never around. I would also love neighbors who thought I was the psychopath to stay away from. These are community goals for me.

 

It seems many here prefer having neighbors who are always not around and mind there business its interesting. From the part of African where I come from, its different. Its not about the immediate nieghbour but the entire neighborhood. The community interact like a family, often times we can tell every member of the community by name and thier household, this is more so in communities where they all speak same language because often times the comunity is a product of a single family hundreds of years ago who have multiplied into extended families over the years. Though this gradually fading away. So the point is its absolutely impossible to be a solo neighbor here.

 

They’re actually not that hard to find.

 

Must feel nice to be connected.

 

Sure