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YES! 3 weeks since porn and I was INTIMATE FOR THE FIRST TIME IN YEARS!! :D :D

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Bran, Jan 19, 2014.

  1. Jan 19, 2014 #1
    Bran

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    Oh man! haha when it was happening I couldn't wait to get on here and tell everyone! (is that sad? haha)

    So I was at a party last night after getting through my first offical day of no MO (I had been tappering back, so I have long been all sensitive and it's amazing. No porn since the 28th).

    This girl was there that I had met before but, again, despite my budding sexuality from porn-induced asexuality/bisexuality, I still wasn't looking to jump in to anything with anyone, just enjoy myself and my progress.

    Then at the end of the night since a lot of us were drunk, four of us paired off in the living room. It wasn't even a planned thing or verbalized, just suddenly I was cuddling with this cute girl on the couch. THE BIG DIFFERENCE THOUGH is that before I dropped porn I know I would have seen the signals, but squashed every one as soon as I saw it, out of fear of intimacy/performance anxiety etc.

    NOT THIS TIME! We didn't get too crazy cause two others were there, but lots of making out and groping etc etc. My erections were just poppin up all over, it was amazing! I felt like if she had gone down on me I wouldn't have flipped (which has been a big issue for me, SPA that is).


    Damn, guys :) I feel great. I know I have been progressing, but last night was just like a
    "HEY, good job. These are the doors that are opening for you, keep it up" from life.
    Now I'm just trying not to fap after a night of blue balling, haha.
     
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  2. Jan 19, 2014 #2
    dungeon

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    congratulations! i have experienced something similar recently, and it's a truly fulfilling thing. just to know nofap is paying off, to feel like my body's repairing itself; i'm properly beginning to understand the prized benefits of taking up this challenge.

    keep spreading the positivity man, good luck on the rest of your journey.
     
    dungeon, Jan 19, 2014
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  3. Jan 19, 2014 #3
    ImReadyD151

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    wow dude that story was nice. It honestly gives me great motivation to keep going. I always begin to question what I am doing with nofap, but stories like that are what give me hope that something beyond my wildest expectations will come out of this. Thanks for that little boost of motivation, keep up the great work!
     
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  4. Jan 19, 2014 #4
    Bran

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    I'm very glad! I'm excited to hit my 1 and 2 week no PMO points, I hear things are often realized at that stage. Let me know how your 7 day reset goes!
     
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  5. Jan 19, 2014 #5
    Silver

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    Nice one! Went to a party surprisingly full of 16-18 year olds yesterday (i'm 24) and got the attention of quite some girls. Actually chatted around quite a bit, but the fact that they where still so young killed it for me. Wanted to test my new "abilities" out, but going for girls who barely shaped their ass yet just wasn't the time nor place. Besides, some of them gave me the "stare" because my beard obviously gave away that I was A LOT older than the rest of the guy's :p

    Sounds like a good ego and motivational boost though! Nice one :)
     
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  6. Jan 19, 2014 #6
    its a mystery

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    Man o man thats fkking great!! I hope it will be the same for me! :)
     
    its a mystery, Jan 19, 2014
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  7. Jan 19, 2014 #7
    Bran

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    Update: Just went for coffee with a different girl--total mexican beauty--and we're going out next weekend. AHH, SOMEBODY STOP ME! Who is this... courageous, sexually-charged, confident man? Thank you, NoFap community. It is true: when you no longer have your hand or the internet for sexual satisfaction, women and dating become a LOT more interesting! :D

    haha, and Silver I know the feeling! It's always a little strange, too, when you get attention from much younger girls. Like, uhh...
    Thanks, its a mystery!
     
    Bran, Jan 19, 2014
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