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You Can Do It, If You Want...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by LOSEmyselftoSAVEmyself, Apr 3, 2021.

  1. Look, I get a lot from you guys on here,
    encouraging me and with a lot of insight.

    So I say this: if you think you can't do this,
    you are wrong.

    If your buddies think it's not worthwhile,
    they are wrong.

    If you think about p, m and/or o while you try to streak,
    it's natural.

    But thinking about past temptations aren't actually a relapse.

    They aren't even a setback.

    So don't give up because NoFap holds the keys to the kingdom.

    If you say "TODAY, I will not use PMO,"
    you won't.

    If you say;
    * it's too hard
    * I'm already turned on
    * I can't stop thinking about the wrong things
    * I'll start tomorrow, next week, next Flag Day
    * This won't help me

    discard those thoughts, even if you aren't sure.

    Sometimes blind obedience or blind faith is better.

    Too much thinking and being inside your thoughts
    is usually the main obstacle.

    Make up your mind that no matter what you think,

    I will make it today, for the WHOLE DAY!

    And you will.

    Because I did it, and I'm marginally competent.

    I make Charlie Brown look like Captain America
    for crying out loud...
     
  2. swordmaster

    swordmaster Fapstronaut

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    This has a little bit of truth to it. But sometimes it is not a matter of I want to succeed, you just don't have the means to do it. But I gotta agree with you to some degree... Every time we relapse, we relapse because we make the choice, we want it. It is certainly hard to just not want to use when your body craves and punish you if you don't give it the pleasure of pmo.
     
  3. You can do it, you will do it.
    Just say to yourself, "TODAY I won't do it.
    TODAY I will do whatever it takes to NOT use PMO.
    TODAY I will accomplish TODAY'S goal/s."

    Because you can do anything if all you have to do is to
    do it TODAY.

    Any longer time frame sets you up for failure.

    Don't dwell on the future right now.

    Good question, thank you!
     

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