You don't imagine doing certain porn induced fetishes with women you know?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by skaterdrew, Oct 23, 2019.

  1. skaterdrew

    skaterdrew Fapstronaut

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    I have developed some weird porn induced fetishes through out the years. But these days these fetishes are weakening, and I actually usually get more turned on at the thought of normal sexual acts these days more than these fetishes.

    But there is something I have noticed recently. So with some certain porn induced fetishes I have I could imagine doing these porn induced fetishes with a female I don't know that I have seen in pictures on social media or something like that and be very turned on by it. But for some strange reason if it is an attractive female that I know in real life I will basically never imagine doing these porn induced fetishes in my head with them if I ever do masturbate. I might imagine doing these porn induced fetishes with a woman I know but I don't know that well in real life who I hardly ever see. But if it is a female that is attractive that I know quite well and who I see quite regularly in real life I seem to never imagine doing these porn induced fetishes with them. I might imagine doing normal sexual acts with them while masturbating, but I will never imagine doing these porn induced fetishes with these women.

    Another thing that is strange is today I was actually chatting to this hot woman, and I had a thought in my head about those weird porn induced fetishes when I was speaking to her. But then I thought no way I would want to do that with her. But the ironic thing is if I had never met her and seen her pictures on social media I probably would of been turned on at the thought of doing those porn induced fetishes with her. It's just really strange. Another thing is I even thought about normal sexual acts in my head when I was speaking to her and even that wasn't doing that much for me. But when I went home I thought she was hot and I didn't think so much about how I would love to have sex with her, I more thought about how great it would be to have a gorgeous looking girlfriend like that who is also a really nice person.

    But I feel like I could fantasise about doing stuff with that woman and be turned on, but when I was actually with her I didn't feel that way.

    It's just really strange. It almost seems like everything is pure fantasy.

    I did feel attracted to that woman I was talking to today. I would get butterflies in the stomach, feel nervous around a female like that if we ever did get close. But I feel like I am not connected and wired to real women the way I should be. I feel like I have been completely wired to porn.

    Like how could I feel more turned on at flicking through that woman's pictures than actually being with her in real life? and that seems like that's the reality.
     
    Last edited: Oct 23, 2019
  2. Porn will twist your sexual tastes to become aroused by things you wouldn't have liked before. If you quit PMO this will go away.
     
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  3. Kexas23

    Kexas23 Fapstronaut

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    Porn makes you not like real women.
     
  4. kropo82

    kropo82 Fapstronaut

    I wonder if it is all about objectifying women. Porn has taught you (us) to objectify women, so when you see an attractive woman you just see her as a sexy body. But when you get to know an attractive woman that relationship breaks the objectification and you now see her as a person (with a sexy body). Hence the two categories of fantasy: the porn fueled ones come out for the women you only see as a sexy body, while the fantasies of "normal sex acts" come out for the women you see as people (with a sexy body).
     

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