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Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Mar 20, 2023.

  1. I write this here as the entire thread is where the fuel for this lies. You may just want to yell at me or ban me for coming here and telling you what to do. Who the hell am I? Doesn’t matter because I know the truth. It stabs into my brain for so long now. These interruptions in my life that have caused me to grow so extreme with thought. That to me death is the only worthy prospect of life. Everything we think is good for us, think that is healthy and keeping us at our best. We need to re-examine it all because we are failing. All these damn people walking around proud for taking it. These people that think spreading disease is a valid form of expression of work. The truth is in what women say, the more blunt words. The “men are creeps” men who watch porn are perverts” it goes on. Don’t call me a simp for saying there is truth in that. It’s like do we plug our ears and lalala when women do talk? What the hell is so good about what we have to say either? I’ve seen awful guys more than girls. Just these real pieces of garbage that don’t even have anything redeeming. We look at these guys talking down to us, wanting to be just like him. When a woman criticizes, it’s always that she’s a bitch. But you will take it from the boss and not say a word. Then go home and take it out on your loved ones. Yeah maybe you can’t say nothing to him, but you deal with that shit on your own. Remember these times you cried and whined to someone online. Remember how it feels to be alone and wanting to just drop dead. Once you or if you do get a girlfriend, you should appreciate her. That doesn’t mean being a spineless wimp. Just remember who you are, always remember these more vulnerable times even when you feel strong. That’s how we have balance, we know to walk away from this filth. Do you really need to jerk off when you have someone there? Do you even need to stare at other girls. This whole “it’s normal” bullshit is what got us here. Dumbass doctors encouraging us to throw our life down the drain. I want a pure heart, even if it is healthy so what? Watching that shit makes me feel dead inside.
     
  2. 277joe

    277joe Fapstronaut

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    The truth is somewhere in between, no need to place every woman on a pedestal. I do agree however that most women I have encountered (at least not the destitute types who do anything for money/drugs) are definitely more innocent than "us" (I don't know how, because this world is not an innocent place at all!). The solution is not to ignore women's input, but the solution is also not to place women on a pedestal either.

    The solution in my view is to chill out about it all. Don't feed the anxiety, look to CBT, the anxious thoughts feed the whole psychological condition, its a cycle. To break free from it you have to forget about it all, when the intrusive thoughts enter your mind, laugh them off. Re-connect with reality as much as possible to get out of your self-perpetuating bubble of anxious solitude, whether its just checking in with the random guy working at the gas station or whatever.

    Last but not least remember women are humans too. It sounds stupid to have to write it down, but when you think about the reasons most of us are on this forum, it is because at some point along the line, for whatever reason, we stopped viewing females as human to some degree. Tell me if I'm wrong but I doubt it! So a good place to start would be interacting with women as "people", not as "women".
     

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