Young black man addicted to porn need the community.

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  1. Gabriell

    Gabriell Fapstronaut

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    My name is Gabriel, I am an eighteen years old black teenager living in france and its been years that I have been struggling with PMO addiction. I was exposed to porn quite young (12 years old maybe) and since then I have been addicted to watching porn and masturbating. At the beginning I was watching it all the time. Then years later (maybe at 16 years old) I have tried to stop but without success. Until now i am addicted, i relapsed this morning after 24 days without PMO. I want to share my progress here as i try to overcome this problem. I think that insulation and the lack of sharing facilitate this process of addiction, so if you are like me replies would be very appreciated.
    Thanks
    Overcoming PMO is the hardest thing that I can do in my life, if I do that then my other goals would be the easiest. When the sexual urges and desires hit me up I just can't resist and my flesh gets out of control. I pray and repent but I always end up masturbating in front of porn. Tell me how you are dealing with this.
     
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  2. Welcome @Gabriell. I suggest that the best approach is to stop masturbating, edging, using porn or any arousing material. If you wish to have sex, that's up to you. For any terms you are not aware of, check the list in The Glossary (above). Furthermore, look at these videos which articulate the main issues involved (by scientist Gary Wilson). His site is: https://www.yourbrainonporn.com



     
  3. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    The enemy is here to steal, kill and destroy. What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
     
  4. BeautyForAshes

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    Welcome to Nofap, my black brotha.
     
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  5. Gabriell

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    I have red your post in case you didnt know, this exactly applies to me, so i will apply those strategies to my case.
     
  6. Gabriell

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    Merci
     
  7. Flyhigh

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    J'espere que vous allez très très bien! ;)
     
  8. Gabriell

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    Right now it is good. Waiting for urges to fight them.
     
  9. Flyhigh

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    Bonne continuation! :)
     
  10. BeautyForAshes

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    Which African nation did you originate, if you don't mind my asking?


    Anal?
     
  11. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    How has your progress been since you began?
     
  12. Gabriell

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    Right now I am on first weeks without PMO so as always it is the easier part. But later on I know that my sex drive will be a danger again. This is where i have to make the right choices.
     
  13. pukernast17

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    Congrats buddy, you are a classic case of pmo addiction , just like most of us here are.
    The solution is simple , stop pmoing.

    But the real adventure begins.when.you start your journey . The ups in this journery are so sweet but don't be fooled , the lows are epic, like a catastrophe feel ,..but if you survive and kick of this addiction ,,, oh man !... You'LL truely become a man with purpose and a gem of a son to your parents
     
  14. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    How is your progress today?
     
  15. Gabriell

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    I relapsed by watching porn for 10 minutes so it is bad for my dopamine addiction but not as bad as if I had masturbated. That being said even that gave me strong fatigue mentaly and physicaly and strong urges. The next day i had strong urges too and today they are not as strong. I am happy i didnt masturbate because i would have been really messed up for days and weeks. So i am still at 32 days not masturbating.
     
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