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Your 3 goals for this month (November edition)

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by vibemaker, Nov 1, 2017.

  1. 90-No PMO Challenge:
    I’m wanna change for the better and leave the image that I watch porn
    New image:
    Trying new things and experience life.
    Read more:
    Because I like reading.
     
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  2. Single Palm Change

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    No way! I just read that book.
     
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  3. vibemaker

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    Welcome to the new participants!
     
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  4. TIMMY0110

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    i know I am 10 days late to enter the contest.

    3 goals:
    #1. meditate atleast for 30 minutes everyday.
    #2. Stop worry about what other people thing of me (will do comfort zone challenge : ) and focus on what I think about myself.
    #3. Read atleast 1 book everyweek.
     
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  5. Amphibian

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    learn Python and some machine learning techniques
    read more, starting with Dostoevsky
    cut out caffeine
     
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  6. vibemaker

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    That's no problem. Feel free to join whenever you want.

    Welcome guys!
     
  7. Byris

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    1. Hit day 90 (will happen)
    2. Lose 8 pounds (221 at the time of writing)
    3. Get a job(have an interview scheduled for next week)
    All easily achievable, I believe.
    Will report back at the end of the month or when I complete all 3.
     
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  8. Woo. One goal down! I benched 62kg for 1 rep @ 60.3kg bodyweight a couple of hours ago. I know this is a really low number, but the amount I struggled with bench, it feels so good to finally be making progress every workout like a beginner should. I started out so weak that 15kg was a heavy weight for me with bench, so I'm very happy with my progress.

    I've also been doing well with this one, I've been making myself go to the busiest shop in my town even for things that I could get from the empty shop that never has anyone in it right by my house. It's helping a lot.

    I'm also considering seeing a psychiatrist for the first time and accepting the help of a professional, rather than doing it all alone - which I think is a big step, and something I should have considered a long time ago.
     
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  9. vibemaker

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    Happy for you doing so well @JesusGreen

    Yes, seeing a therapist can be very good. I also was in therapy a couple of times and it was a huge step for me. I used to block for a long time against it, but I'm happy I did it.
     
  10. MLMVSS

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    I'll post my goals I made at the beginning of the month here just to solidify them.

    1. Get good marks in my classes. I can't do anything about this now since I'm out of university for the summer, but nonetheless, it's been a long term goal, and it's this month that I'll find out.

    2. Visit 2 places I've never been, as part of my larger 50 nations different goal. I got this covered with Japan now and Korea next week. Unlike most of the areas I visited, I plan on actually spending heaps of quality time in those two countries.

    3. Be more consistent in my spiritual conquests: continue to attend church, read more of my holy texts, practice more meditation, and overall realise my place in the universe.
     
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  11. 1. Getting back to writing my book. I have been neglecting it quite much these last two months, not really surprised though. I started again a couple of weeks ago, and now I have finally started a new chapter, feeling good about it.

    2. Get into the excersising again. The last few weeks I have steadily been training again and it feels really good.

    3. Start applying for jobs. I have been taking a break from it. It was depressing as hell not getting any interviews, but I am ready to get back on the horse.
     
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  12. AlbertCarlsson

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    1. NoFap through the remainder of the month.
    2. Finish "The name of the rose" by Umberto Eco which is a great book, but some of the philosofical/historical/semiotical debates between characters get sometimes really boring IMO, which actuaclly has been the biggest hindrance in my journey with the book.
    3. Practice Swedish every single day, even if it's just a repetition on Duolingo.
     
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  13. El fapio

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    1. Reach 60 hours of programming(2 hours per day)
    2. Meditate everyday for atleast 10 minutes
    3. Get a job
     
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    Month of November 2017: my three goals:
    1 ielts on 2nd Dec
    2 take ccie date
    3 meditation morning half hour
     
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  15. vibemaker

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    So guys how are you doing? Half of November is already gone, haha. I must admit I haven't finished a single goal of the ones I mentioned. I think to be realistic I will probably just finish the mix for the soundcloud. Going to put some records together today and do a couple of recordings the next days.

    I didn't write much on my novel. Instead I did work on a 'how to reach 90 days and beyond NoPMO step-by-step guide'. I don't know when I'm going to finish it. Probably will take some time.

    Good vibes.
     
  16. vibemaker

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    Hey cool to see another one who's into writing here. Do you want to share on what kind of stuff you're working? Are you writing fiction or non-fiction?
     
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  17. Yes, sure. I can't right now. At work, but when I get some time tonight I can write something about it. All I can say now is that it's fiction :).
     
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  18. Goal 3:

    Getting my LLC started. It’s been my dream to be my own boss so I’m working towards making that dream a reality. Ideally I want to be able to reach retirement by my 40th birthday. When I say retirement I mean being able to leave the 9am-5pm worker world where I live paycheck to paycheck or only one paycheck ahead of a mountain of debt.[/QUOTE]


    Check out "the fastlane forum" a lot of help with business and often more importantly what not to do with business
     
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  19. Single Palm Change

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    Since you asked, I had a very good start of november with only a few relapses and consistent training and diary-ing.
    Then a few days ago I hit a dead end and crapped out totally.
    I have been reading every day though. And no alcohol so far - success!

    I hope you guys are doing good.

    I want to say one thing. That thing that needs doing, just work on it for just five minutes right now! Just 5 small minutes! Then you will set the train in motion and it will be easier to do more later.
     
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  20. vibemaker

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    That's a good advice.


    So a little more than a week to go.
     
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