Your Big Fat Three Triggers ;

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by DonkeyKong22, Nov 6, 2014.

  1. DonkeyKong22

    DonkeyKong22 Fapstronaut

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    Good evening fellow NoFappers Please tell us your three big fat triggers that make you dig deep every time. Feel free to add more than 3 if there's more bad boys that cause you some real grief.
    Hopefully this will warn us, and help us relate to each other.
    Please help to smash 20 responses to get a real idea of the most common ones..
     
  2. DonkeyKong22

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    Being home alone straight after work this one really gets the urges going
    laying in bed before sleeping I used to wank every night again even if i'd been on porn for 5 hours, i'm still fighting this urge 88 days in.
    hearing about a leaked film of a celebrity or stuff on the radio about sexting these urges stay with me all day as I used to search them
    Seeing a woman in underwear or a sex scene in a movie etc this reminds me so much of the pmo days!

    They are my big 4
     
  3. tweeby

    tweeby Banned

    -Kindness, sweetness, vulnerability, petite, perfume, delicacy.

    ^^Argh crap I must be on my way to recovery, because that's how normal guys must describe their partners.
     
  4. GayRomeo

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    Seeing an underwear model.

    Reminiscing about tawdry sex I've had in the past.

    Fantasizing about being sexually submissive.
     
  5. Jalus

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    Boredom

    Allowing myself to indulge,be lazy, and be hedonistic (booze, video games, etc), esp. when no one is around

    Coming home after being gone an extended time. I don't know why, but coming back after vacations and such always kills me.
     
  6. TeamUSASwan

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    Boredom.
    Insomnia.
    [NSFW]Big breasts. I've always been a sucker for 'em.[/NSFW]
     
  7. ClaudioFFF

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    Coming home after my night shift, tired and stressed. It's when I stay alone for 9 hours and the urges are really strong.

    After having an argument with my wife.

    [NSFW]Big ass girls that I see on the street, at the gym or anywhere else. Specially if their dressing tight pants. [/NSFW]
     
  8. NotAClone

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    Being alone.
    Sex scenes.
    Thinking about it.
     
  9. w-san

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    Feeling alone
    Seeing a pretty girl on the street/in class
    Seeing pretty women in ordinary clothing ads [NSFW](Doesn't matter if they're clothed or not. If they're hot, I'll fantasize about taking their clothes off.)[/NSFW]
    Becoming aware that, "No one's watching me at the moment".
     
  10. ruso

    ruso Fapstronaut

    1. Tumblr.

    2. click-bait celebrity photo posts that exist even in some really good sites that use this to generate revenue, since sex sells. Such a bummer too. Because usually by the time you click the photo link, on the corner 90% of the time there just has to be something about a nude scene/sex scene/steamy photo, to further increase click hopping.

    3. Extremely tired or half asleep from 12 am and later.

    4. Same thing like some, hearing about a new pic or sex tape leak.

    Also DonkeyKong22 what do you plan to do with the research collected from your previous post: A few questions for Fapstronauts I think you should should make a graph or something :p
     
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  11. CocoRosie concert videos and interviews and photos. Hands down, by very far, what drives me insane.
    Music. And clips too, [NSFW]but now that I'm rebooted, if I allowed myself to, I could reach climax ONLY by listening to a song I love.[/NSFW] I actually have to be extremely careful with this.
    Tumblr. Loaded with porn, everyone knows it. Sometimes the most innocent blogs suddenly post an excplicit pic and it requires all the willpower of the world.
    Trying to remember porn scenes. Way too often.
    Lying in bed before sleeping. See above.
    Feeling lonely and frustrated and/or depressed.
    Anything that's related to my fetishes, tricophilia and adidas. Sounds dumb but when you're in an art and fashion school and literally everyone is hot AND have incredibly hot haircuts AND wear adidas garments... Well it's tough to say the least. [NSFW]Also anything related to shaving or hairy armpits, I have no idea why.[/NSFW]
    Ads of men underwear in the street.
    Faces of celebrities I fancy.
    Work. I had to read fanfictions for work the other day, and what has been read cannot be unread and gave me serious blue petal. Also I work a lot with porn related or based pictures. And a lot of people in the studio do to, so everytime I enter the studio to work, [NSFW]I see this giant print of an orgasming woman[/NSFW], thank you Leo :(
    Real people I fancy, girlz and boyz at school. I can't help but objectifying them, my mind start to race and boom, I get triggered. I know it's normal and I'm rebooted but still. And agreed with tweeby, perfumes drive me mad.
    Agreed with Jalus too, indulgence is also a huge trigger. So annoying :(

    I'm very interested with what you will come with DonkeyKong22!


    EDIT: forgot hungover.
     
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  12. NotAfraid

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    1. Boredom

    2. Rejection from a girl

    3. When reality hits you in your face
     
  13. kadiri007

    kadiri007 Guest

    My biggest trigger is going to library in college on college days or sometimes offdays, watching woman feet, (shoeplay)
     
  14. My real trigger are deep inner conflicts and unsolved problems.

    Instead of solving the problemns and instead of making decisions and taking action, I am doing nothing, and then, I am filling the gap with porn and masturbation. The final orgasm is then very similar to a "junkie's high". Pretty much the same like taking a drug.
     
  15. beauty

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    1. Procrastination (daily duties, working out, etc.)
    2. Being anti-social (low self confidence)
    3. Desperation (the attitude that NoFap isn't worth the time and effort, might as well enjoy PMO)
     
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  16. dmedeiros

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    Feeling alone and/or rejected

    Being home alone.

    Remember the fact that i'm missing seeing a lot of material of my favourite actresses and sites.
     
  17. DonkeyKong22

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    yeah ok Ruso, i'm not the best on a pc but I'm sure I can smash a graph this weekend! Ill keep you posted, may have to ask you how to upload it if it comes to that ha. #(yup I am in the dark ages)
     
  18. JJnofap

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    1. Being hung over, urges are always way worse.
    2. stumbling upon pics on the internet
    3. rationalizing/making excuses
    "screw it no big events coming up"
    "probably won't meet a girl soon anyway"
    etc (never worth it ofc)
     
  19. Namekian23

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    My first trigger is when I'm depressed about something; since I have bipolar disorder, my mood swings can fluctuate rather quickly, so it's really hard to function when I'm feeling down.

    My second trigger is just being in the house and not going outside. If there's a few people around or none at all, there's a greater temptation.

    Finally, the third is just going on regular websites like yahoo.com that tells news about sexy celebrities, singers, models, etc.
     
  20. Nicely said ;-)
     

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