Your bro needs some help

Go out to a date and have fun. When a woman is into you she is going to get closer to you so you can start and gently touch her.. in the arm.. shoulders.. etc. Try to be as natural as you can, don't force it. Go for the kiss at the end of the nigth or before if the chance arrives. In next date, try to go for the kiss earlier and if the kisses start to get more constant in the date at the end of the date ask her if she want to come to your place for another round (beer, or the drink you like). If she goes to your home is likely she is willing to let you have your way with her unless you do something wrong.

In your house kiss her, touch her, and start to get of her clothes. This is a slow process that can take hours (enjoy it!), if she take your hands out of her but she keep kissing you or with a smile in her face while she talks to you, respect the boundry and try again later when she come closer to you. Woman test man an tell them no, to know if they can accept a no for an answer. When you stop when she ask you, she is going to get more confortable and is probable that next time you try she is going to be willing to let you touch her.. keep doing this and eventually she will be confortable enough to let you get you way with her.

Of course if after several trys to go at it she is not willing to let you touch her or take her clothes off then just stop trying. is ok that she test you a little bit but if she make it really hard then it gets boring and you should just let it go and leave it there. She is going to notice that you pull back so she need to decide what to do, or she goes home or she engange with you again and let you have your way with her. Always stand your ground, don't let the other person mess with you.

Remember as guy are the gatekeepers of relationship and marriage, woman are the gatekeepers of sex. So man propose kissing, man propose touching, man propose sex and is the woman that accept this advances. Do it properly and she is going to be confortable enough to let you get in. Do it poorly and you are going to get rejected and with a bad case of blue balls (haha!).

 

Try to do it in a funny way use what she says and some how relate something that she says to sex and see how she responds. If the answer is positive keep going, use touch too.

 

Here's a trick my buddy told me years ago. When you say goodbye and are hoping to get a kiss but aren't sure look her in the eyes and as you are saying goodbye reach out and gently grab her elbow with a little squeeze. It's totally non threatening and if she wants to kiss you she will read it as you pulling her towards you and if not it's just a friendly touch in a non sexual way. It is so simple and works so well it's stunning.

 

Cocky-funny, push-pull, amused mastery.