Your grandfather. Different world.

I stuggle with this nofap stuff, but occasionally find things funny. Like messaging a bunch of (mainly) men about M.
But what about many decades ago? Before the 50s, people didn't even have a TV, and before the 20s maybe, they didn't even have radio, so would have to do something called reading. Or talking, and doing stuff.
Your grandad didn't have the same worries as you, although his life may well have been harder. He might even have stopped the fucking Nazis invading your country.
So...put the D down.

 

I don't think it's funny, it's disturbing. I don't know why people feel the need to be so graphic about sexual stuff. I tend to mainly use the word relapse for P&M. Someone referred to us all as w*****s in a group and I'm like WTF! I won't go anywhere near that group now. Don't why you had to use the d and w word in this thread anyway. This is a recovery site, not a porn site.

 

Ah gotcha. Triggers. Will amend now. Apologies.

 

Yup. Imagine a time before the internet and smart phones. I actually lived there.
One time, my friend and I decided to ditch the TV, and spent a month doing positive stuff. It is all do-able, mate...

 

It isn't that I'm triggered, it's just that I find it disturbing. I don't want to be reading posts where a guy is talk about his d**k all the time. I guess it a PAM but still WTF!

 

Good man. 'Easy' is great, but also killing people slowly. 'Hey! Never do anything and move or think or try! Only do what you feel like..'

 

PAM - Porn addict mentality.

I was saying the reason why people feel they have to be graphic is because they're still thinking like a porn addict. You can stop with the porn but the porn hasn't left you. But still I find it ridiclous that some people feel they need to be graphic.

 

Really, thats your thinking?
Porn do leave you over time. You just would not notice it, because you would not be thinking about it.

 

Hey don't forget that internet videos/gurus are absolutely fine, but don't get stuck on one person ever. Look at all the self-help people, plus the religions, plus your personal heroes, plus people you know....blah blah. Take your time and become YOU. Damn I'm drunk now. And DON'T DRINK.

 

I like it man lol. Thinking like that does make you feel kind of silly doesn't it. It puts things into perspective.

 

Ah I will click on Carlin. Wanking is British for masturbating. Colloquial.

'Poontang'.
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Sorry man. I won't do it again

 

I wouldn't beat yourself up. I can see where he's coming from, but everyone does it and its not like we're all virtuous saints here lol. We've all seen worse things than the 'd' word

 

Thanks. Exactly.

 

And we want beer too...

 

Ha I like it. Apparently one gets some amazing insights when on a vodka fast.