You're ok, There's nothing wrong

It's good to know how to be alone, but you are going to need friends. Friends, the ability to make new friends, and the ability to discern the people in your life worthy of that title. Female companionship is nice too, but less important. Mostly you just need to learn how to treat women right so you can have your pick. And to be completely straight with you, your opinion of yourself is sort of irrelevant. How you act is what really matters. If you think you are a great guy but everyone else thinks you are a creep, well then guess what, you're a creep. While I am sure this post seems curt, its written with your well being in mind. The more clearly you can see reality the more easily you can navigate it.

 

I like this a lot, this was almost the perfect thing for me tonight. Thank you for sharing.

 

I fully resonate and totally love what you have just said! Your opinion of yourself is all that matters!

What others think is not my concern. If it was, then I'd self-obsess myself down the wrong path, leading me to be paranoid and conditioned by others beliefs and thinking "I need to be like the Jones's!" I would never be true to myself if I live a life concerned by what others think of me. I'd be dead by now if I kept walking down that route. As Henry David Thoreau said: "Walk to sound of your own beat" but honour and respect the sounds of others too.

I love your positivity. Life is all about being positive and learning to master your lot, and I fully agree with you on how society judges you if you do not have a partner or children or are socially alienated, or awkward, or dark-skinned, or gay, or extremely tall, or short, or stutter, or act weird because you have Asperger's, or ADHD, or Parkinson's, or disabled, or maybe just because you're kinda weird, or are too old, too young, too stupid, too clever.

The fact is, we are all individualized specks of Gods greatness. No one is superior and no one is inferior. We are all unique expressions of the greatness that is the unfolding universe. You are you and I am I. If someone wants to hate you, let them hate you. If they want to judge you., let them judge you. It's their God-given right to unfold in the way they are.

99Don, your post touched me in every part. I resonate deeply and profoundly with everything you said. Love your positivity! Love it!

Wicked post!