Hello, I quitted PMO at New Years Eve. I would like to be able to notice changes in myself along the way. I just have morning woods since I stopped. I am very strict with how I am handling it. No porn No image browsing (it happened a few times, but 2min max, without intention to fap) No masturbation No touching (just when I need to scratch myself or bathroom needs) Forgetting nudity thinking (very difficult to control, but sometimes I don't think about it in days) The thing is, I would very much have sex at some point (a few months forward). It can be with a stranger, one night stand, or a professional, I don't mind, I just want to at some point. Although, since I am single and virgin, all I have ever experienced in life is orgasm via porn, erections when I was in the mood for browsing porn etc. If I browse porn now, I don't get any boner, I have to touch myself to get started. It has been like this 2 to 3 years before I quitted PMO. I had close to 0 social activities in those last years. 1) Is it normal about my boners ? 2) Can I restore it (even if I don't want to fap to porn again, just I want to have the boners to it again, like I should) ? 3) How can I notice when I am starting to get ready for my first ? Thank you very much for helping me
Just go get you a hooker and see how it goes, no need to overthink it. She won’t judge you, it’s her job.
I was not expecting that kind of answer honestly =_= I want to at some point, but I don't want to do it and "see how it goes". I want to feel prepared for it beforehand. So, once again: 1) Is it normal about my boners ? 2) Can I restore it (even if I don't want to fap to porn again, just I want to have the boners to it again, like I should) ? 3) How can I notice when I am starting to get ready for my first ?
That’s exactly what you need to do. The first time is terrible anyway, it probably won’t even be fun... but after you get a few practice rounds out of the way, it’ll be awesome.
don't go to a hooker just flirt and when you noticed there is a "click" with someone thats probably the right way to have sex and you don't have to be in love just having a good connection with someone..
1)If u dont get boners then it is a problem 2) Yes you will restore it with nofap. It might take a few months to happen. I cannot give you a exact time frame becoz I cannot determine how much damage PMO has caused to you. 3) I don't have a definite answer like I said, however, when you are ready you will have constant urge to ask girls out, get plenty boner when you look at a randomgirl on the street (which is kind of awkward) and start dating. I relapsed after 100+ days, last month and I saw a lot of improvement with my boners. However, after I relapsed, I have been relapsing even since and unable to pick myself up. I would suggest you to go 90 day no PMO and then decide what to do next. 90 day challenge is tough, no doubt about that, but its worth the effort.
Dont act like i m weird you know people when they're alone (creepy music) can do things...things that might surprise you. No i didn't have the chance to try it my dog died soon as i got the idea