Still wondering if this is PIED: the fact that I was even getting something of an erection with a girl would lead me to believe it's not PIED but an organic thing
Only about a week rn but I haven't used porn heavily at all in the past (only used to masturbate a ton but in a weird way without an erection). When I had an 80 day streak I still wasn't getting morning wood. I used the drugs and O'd with a weak erection from a blowjob. Do you think it's ok to O with someone else while not watching porn or masturbating?
I feel like I have answered this question before? Did you post it before? stop the PMO again, for 90 days, try it again, and NO ED DRUGS! They are just going to make it worse.
Im still not sure why you say it will make it worse- just please tell me. Also I'm in a relationship so any time I can even get anything remotely close to an erection I want to use it- just not to porn or masturbation. I don't even think I can get hard to porn
An ED drug will likely give you delayed ejaculation, which means you won’t be able to O with her, and that’s just as bad as not being able to get an erection. Or it may not work at all, the ED drug. It’s not a miracle worker. If you start taking it you are going to prolong your problem and your recovery. You keep asking the same question because you are hoping someone will give you a different answer, but there is not a different answer to be given. You did damage to your body, absent the 80 day clean period. That damage took years to create and it’s not going to be undone in a few days. Recovery will take at least 90 days,and then you need to never go back to PMO after that, or you will keep having this problem. your choices right now is try to have sex the regular way, and hope for the best. Tell her nothing about your addiction. Use an ED drug and hope for the best and tell her nothing about your addiction. Three not have sex with her and end things, remaining single for a reboot until you get this sorted out, or tell her the truth and do the best you can during sex, having her understand that you are recovering. But if you have ED or PIED you cannot just snap your fingers and finish. Women who find out a man has to use a drug to have sex with them, tend to not be okay with it, unless you tell them upfront that you are. You cannot fix this in a short period of time. I am sorry, there are your only choices.
The ED drugs will not help. You need to pay the price for PIED. Absolutely nothing for a minimum of 90 days.
If you can’t get erect at all it will take longer than 90 days. It’s a self inflicted injury. It requires patience and suffering to heal to correctly.
Yes I mean you can ask the same question as many times as you want but there still is no quick fix answer. If there was someone on here would have told everyone and probably be rich. It’s like asking to lose 30 pounds in two 2 weeks. You can take weight loss pills and will it help maybe a little bit but still won’t get you close to the 30 pounds and as soon as you stop taking them the weight will come back. You gotta stop pmo forever. Not just 80 days forever.
Agreed. I'm never going back to porn or masturbation. I'm just curious why you guys say that any orgasm at all delays the process
I'm not doubting you I'm just curious as to why you think this is. I was under the impression that masturbating to porn is what wires people's sexuality to images or videos. If a girl is making me ejaculate why will this be bad?
It’s not bad under normal circumstances. That’s they way it should be. You however have an injury that is preventing you from responding to her in full effect. I don’t know what other answers you want to expect.
Nobody here is forcing you to not have sex but the sex you have will now because of PIED will be low quality for both of you.
You obviously don’t want to do the work necessary to restore normal erections because it means sacrifice.
I do get horny still but am not getting hard. Maybe it's not PIED but another reason for ED that I'm not sure about