After more than a year of not feeling anything positive, I felt the "Butterflies in the stomach" sensation. A pretty girl told me to cheer up, for most of you that might not sound like anything, but it made me feel something I haven't felt in a long time. I probably will never see her again and she probably said that out of pity, but this means that I haven't lost the capacity of being charmed. Maybe I can fall in love again someday.
Way Cool! Glad to hear you got them bugs in your belly. 144 already, quite an achivement to be proud of. Keep it up. And she probably did not say it out of pity, but to cheer you up
149 Days = Excellent …….. keep up the good work!!! Benefits of NoFap: * Increased attention from opposite sex * No Fears * More Sociable * etc.
Actually I am starting to remember why I induced myself a flatline. None of those effects have happend to me.
Life works around in mysterious ways and sometimes it's giving you a sign, you just gotta read it. That's all I am going to say . May you achieve your goals and dreams brother, much power moving forward.
Hey, Infra! Cheer up! Here's another very, exceptionally beautiful and very, incredibly modest girl saying that And it's only the beginning. See dem coming down on you now everywhere you go! Be prepaaaaared *in Illidan's voice*
I did't know that happened so long ago, but, at the very least, expect the next babe talking to you irl in the next 5 months Maybe today. Maybe tomorrow.
I am actually a bit worried. I have been working out and I feel a bit more confident but my college life is about to end and after that there will little to no interactions with other people. I need places to know people.
People become happy by trying to achive things, setting and working on goals. Psycholigical studies show this Achieving ones goals does not bring the happiness we expect. Never achieving anything doesn't either. So congrats on the ending of collega life but set yourself (a) new goal(s). And chop that/those goals up into smaller ones and smaller ones, so you achieve them regularly and get a rward from your brain. This will stop a downward spiral from happening. So f.e. you want a job? You nee to figure out what kind, how to apply, how to look, what to say, what are your own strengths and weaknesses etc. You want to meet people. Good goal. How do you meet people? Not sitting at home, so small goal, go out at least once a day. Even if it is just around the block. Doing that, start saying hi to everyone etc.etc. You've done an amazing 209 days already, go on, live!
Sometimes we read too much of people's gesture. They many times don't even feel/ think in that way as we suppose it to be. Generally people consider us better than we ourself. Don't think too much bro. She must not have thought in that way. Even if she would have then it doesn't matter.. What matters most is that you keep improving. Give your best leave the rest.
Maybe that girl is a genuine human being who goes around uplifting others. One of my old teachers was like this... She used to encourage all students and made even the dumbest feel smarter by the day. Everyone misses her as far as I know.
I know the feeling. Some people adore cats and dogs, but to me, they absolutely pale in comparison to a cute girl.