Hello guys, so I've finally made it to my 90 days goal. it has been a long journey, trying to break this addiction since 2 years, and i managed to make a 90 day streak starting in October. I've been a huge addict since my early 12s or so , consuming P daily. my taste got worse , hard-core porn seemed awesome and developed ED. So before October, I was in a mood where I couldn't sort my things out, thought I'm just everyone else , bored , being lazy etc. the first month was really hard . I tried my best not to relapse , passed many flatlines where I laid in my couch for some days with little interactivity. however after that my mood starting getting better. I started paying attention to little details that I could never appreciate before , and that gave me a confidential boost to continue I started socialising and found a girl I really like. I explained everything and man , this was the best feeling. she understood everything and supported me when I was feeling really down. 90 days now , my mood is peaked, I've got a lot of confidence and keep an eye contact on anyone . I feel different and get complimented a lot. gosh it's really awesome. my morning wood is working again, I'm getting boners from fantasizing , however when I somehow end up seeing some nudes online I don't get any hard at all . I guess I need more time but the improvements so far are amazing. I'm getting hard by kissing my girl and she says we can do it whenever I feel ready. this is the best feeling I've ever felt in my entire life. thanks everyone. keep it up guys , life's much much more than wasting it on a computer screen
I had many from day 50+ like 6-7 especially if i was sexting the night before. I'm not getting aroused from pixels anymore so I'm like halfway healed but can't see the way fantasizing is a negative step. that's how the brain works right?
I'm so happy for you. Your enthusiasm is infectious. Remember this moment and this feeling. But don't stop here. Cherish the new life you're living and chase it further. Build a great life! Enjoy my brother! Once again, I'm so very happy for you!
If your sexual thoughts are about a person who you could potentially be romantic with (a person you know, not someone on a computer screen), then no they are not bad; rather, they are good. You are an animal. That's it. You have innate desires and primal needs that need to be fulfilled in order for you to live a life without all of this primal suppression and the resulting subconscious confusion that leads so many people to porn in the first place.
I get sexual thoughts about hot girls i see at work etc all the time , those thoughts guve me anxiety
Don't feel anxious or stressed from having sexual thoughts. You are an animal. Mating is at the top of our priority list. However, if these sexual thoughts are preventing you from pursuing your passions and doing something of value with your time and with your life, then you have a problem.
Yes thy are preventing me to do anything . Job social life all get worst . Anxiety from these thoughts all time . Is ther any solution to all these problems bro