Today I actually maintained my erection and could end up cumming to oral sex. It’s been 80 days since my first failure at sex and losing my erection 15 seconds after getting hard. I felt zero sensation during oral sex and it took my fantasy to get hard even then. I quit pmo and boy, I can’t believe what has happened. My erections were rock hard today after god knows when. I am not resetting my counter because I was with a real person. But I can finally say it that I feel ready for sex sometime soon and I’m not afraid to go all in. I feel like I’m almost cured. Nofap was a miracle process. I can’t thank nofap enough for this.
This is great to hear! Thanks for sharing, it's stories like this that really inspire me to stay strong
Just stick to the process and be honest to yourself. It’s only going to get better. The greatest medicine to pied is abstinence. I’m sure you’ll get there my friend!
I’m definitely planning on making a thread soon with all the details once and if I actually am successful with sex!
Congrats, mate! Your situation sounds very familiar to mine. I struggled to keep erections and a blowjob wouldn't work for me: I felt nothing and wasn't exciting at all. That is not right, since oral sex is supposed to be enjoyed and get you hard. Our difference is that you fortunately managed to make changes very soon. It took me years to realise I had problems that could be addressed by only removing a habit. I'm on day 33 already and have managed to have much better sex than before. Even comparable to when I was a teenager. Good on you.
Well done my friend I am really glad you have seen improvements. I believe we all are in this together, battling one thing - porn. I really love hearing success stories because we have beaten our addiction and become a better person. Way to go, I’m sure you’ll get where you want! Even during orgasm I felt like I orgasmed like how I did when I initially started masturbating as a kid and the orgasms were intense. Rebooting is something that has helped me massively!
i cant get erection in standing position and i lose it with out stimulation .how to recover i did nt watch porn and did nt maturbate since 90 days
It depends on your pmo history. If you’ve been addicted for a lot of years then you will take more than 90 days, possibly 6 months to a year to recover. Try doing kegels they helped me initially to maintain an erection.
I do feel that I am almost recovered. I can’t say for sure until I have successful sex, and I don’t think I’m going to be having that for another month or so. Once I do end up having successful sex I can confidently say that I am cured!
Everybody heals differently! I think you have to totally forget about sex to heal the best. Totally forget about sex and enjoy your hobbies