I used get really excited and all horny after looking at some porn but now I need to view alot more porn to get excited. I just cant be bothered how they start with foreplay and kisses and go straight for the real action, but its still bores the hell out of me and don't remember anymore the why I needed to watch this anymore. Is this PIE, PIED or something else?
First, it's not healthy to need porn as a sex substitute. It sounds like you might need to reboot off of all that. I also lost interest in porn towards the end of my addiction. I'm not saying it's gone but I have gone 80 days without porn or masturbation. I believe that what you describe happens to a lot of addicts. You may need to get away from porn and/or masturbation for a while to give your body time to renew itself. Just like you, now that I've been away from porn so long, I also don't remember why I needed to watch it. Consider going through a reboot process. I think that will help you a lot. That is what helped me.
You should be worried for being a porn addict in the first place, get off of that garbage for your own good before it escalates to much worse level !
If it no longer excites you are starting to get numb to it and yes, you are becoming an addict, run away from it now, and do away with the shit permanently now, if you continue you will get worse, being bored by the usual is your warning sign, remove yourself from it now.
This is what often leads to escalation, where you need more extreme, wierd and taboo porn to be excited. Cut it out now before that process can happen.
Well, that's a good thing if porn doesn't excite you no more because you don't need to have porn in your life no more. Porn is nothing but a liar, a thief, and a murderer just like the devil. Porn doesn't excite me no more and I don't even think about going back ever.
A normal person shouldn’t get excited by porn because porn is not normal. It should excite a pervert for sure.
Not really. Part of the rebooting process is losing some attraction to porn. That's a good thing. You don't want to go back.
What he said. If the usual soft P is not interesting anymore then next comes the more perverse and fetish stuff. You don’t even realize until you are hooked on P just like any drug addict. Sadly I am in this stage and really hard for me to quit.
The real danger here when porn become boring is to escalate to something more stimulating. You don't want to go that path.
Although many may disagree, I completely agree with you. My porn addiction is rather new and started at an old age, and I very well remember what the initial "novel" reaction was. Porn was weird, grose and disgusting. It's so fake on every level. There's nothing natural in porn. I'm a married man. I know what having sex is in the real life. But yes, in that way porn is normal that it's highly addictive and we get hormonally rewarded for jerking and wanking. Getting "excited" and "driven" by alcohol, weed, heroin and LSD is normal too. It's the natural hormonal reaction. The abnormal part is why we need and urge those fake and destroying elements for excitement in the first place. That's the big issue. If we don't get our kick out of our normal life, it means our lifestyle is already corrupt. Porn is abnormal. And if it doesn't "tickle" you anymore, it really means that things have gone bad already. I don't encourage you to just "wank ahead". It will get only worse. It will destroy you, maybe not completely but on many levels. Sorry to be rude, but this stuff is serious.
sounds like pre pied symptoms, maybe you should take like two weeks break from everything sexual, could reset everything back to normal.
