When is the last time you found a girl that just made you feel stupid just being around her? Like she can do no wrong and looks beautiful? I’m talking like the high school butterflies type feeling. Does that exist in mid 20s? Or is porn drowning it out? Can we even be taken aback by a girl anymore ?
Last year, when one of my friends I had absolutely zero feelings for shared to my group of friends that she had a positive sexual experience with a girl and ultimately decided she wasn't into them, for some reasons that triggered an enormous emotional response for me. I had an extremely deep crush that went on for months. Stupid in love. Couldn't breathe when she was around. I saw her again a few weeks back and thought, fuck, was I stupid. Yes she's gorgeous, she looks like Dua Lipa, has the best laugh ever, she's funny, smart and talented, but why do I always fall for straight or fictional girls?
If you keep get rejected over and over and over. It does not. I don't think it's only about porn. It's about enthusiasm, when you lost that you lost those butterflies too.
Myself. I'm just so taken back by how handsome and strong I am. Jokes aside, probably my last gf. I was in love with her at the time.
I don’t know if you’re saying I’m the one taking your breath away or not but I’m totally into it lol.
I think you are talking about falling in love. That is a bad idea. Love is blind and way too much happiness like crazy euphoric happiness woman are great but very changeable and moody. I will not put myself at the hands of love. It's a great high but also a hard low. Love in moderate amounts without loosing your judgment it can be really fun do
As humans, we are in love with idealized beauty. We are captivated by beautiful women because we think that her personality and character is that of a fair maiden. See my thread about learning to hate deceptive beauty. Society ignores/shuns homely looking or ugly looking women.
Don't remember and don't feel I'm missing anything. If I could do something to remember I would probably not put forth the effort at this point. I would go so far as to compare it with being nostalgic with classic gaming. I know some people who are totally into it, I've completely lost interest. Honestly I'd say there's a better experience of connection later. I don't know that it automatically comes with age though, just as that gaming nostalgia doesn't also disappear in time. Even if it's someone I was really into when younger, both I and the girl will have changed. I certainly am not attracted to the same kind of women as I was when I was in my 20s.