I like the point when you say "I had known her for three year but could not express yourself to her"..oh man! how much I miss that feels like its still fressh in my memories..how you love someone and you could never tell just because of this shit.. Happy and jealous to see you are talking to the girl you have been loving for three year..I could never do that God bless you!
Loved reading this. Your benefits really encourage me because all the things you mentioned, I currently have problems with. This gives me encouragement and motivation that maintaining nofap will give me improvement in all the areas of my life. I have already seen improvement in my body, physique, and mind. I have been reading books constantly for the last week and before this I always got bored of books, but now I love them. I love to spend time outside unlike before. All thanks to only 27 days of nofap, even though I edged on two occasions. I need more posts like yours to keep me disciplined against edging.
You could do that. I always thought i could never do that and here i am diong it. You can believe me you can. Abstaining from porn really helped me become comfident.
Your case is really similar to mine. Me i too i used to hate giong outside and reading books. What kind of books do you read? I advice you to continue this journey you will really change your life you will improve yourself alot and it will help u reach your best version of yourself
Hey man. Well, my background is not English and so there is a second language I speak but I am not so good at that language, so I decided months ago to buy some books in that language and read them to get better. That is what I have been doing. I spend half my reading time reading those books, and then I finish off my reading with some English stuff. I'm currently re-reading This Boy's Life by Tobias Wolff. I studied it in school and really enjoyed the messages. I feel like many of us from the pre-nofap time could relate a lot to Jack (the main character). He has low self esteem and is always looking for love and acceptance in any way he can get it. Perhaps this is one of the reasons I liked the book. I always scored highest marks on my essays for it because I understood the character so well because he was so similar to me in so many ways
My background is also non english. One more common similarity. I advice you to read self improvement books
What a inspiring story!! You are my goal I want to abstain from masturbation because I feel that harm my memory and health even though I just masturbated occasionally So could you tell me if you will not masturbate any more and if the masturbation had harmed your memory before? Then how long have you feel recovered ? Sorry for so many questions~
I will not masturabte anymore. I am against self pleasing. I feel that masturvation and porn decreased my concentration levels which also led to decreased memory. Every day i feel i am getting better my concentration is better and memory too.
Thank you for taking the time to write this. This is a very inspirational and motivational story to read. You are a true hero to us all, keep it up!
Good on you, very touching what you have read. I really enjoyed it. I have done 7 weeks previously and life was so good. Relapsed since - time to go back on it.