ITS OK TO MASTURBATE GUYS! ITS NORMAL!

Is it ok to pick your nose?

 

I agree. Eating food is natural and needed to survive, being addicted to food can be very unhealthy. Spending money is fine, but being addicted to spending money is really bad. it's all about learning to act in moderation. That's life.

 

Has anyone ever done that?

(Aside from people who are into choking themselves with a belt while doing it)

 

No. That is an unforgivable sin.

 

OMG, I couldn't agree with you more.

I wish there was somewhere on this forum that people could have real sensible conversations instead of "help I've relapsed" or "I've fucked this or that and I'm losing it." At first I found this forum very informative. Now I'm thinking its all a bit crazy and worse, there are some really "very dark," experiences shared on nofap that I would have liked to not have been exposed to.

PS I'm not a religious zealot or a scared prude

 

yup but some people fap for 5-10 years ... Isnt that a lot of time to learn about sexuality lol .... Some women get menopause in 30s .... And still their husband try to discover their sexuality.

Pretty cool huh?

 

Masturbation is wrong. End of convo.

 

Ah well, there you have it.

 

You agree or disagree with my statement?

 

Absolutely. It's only "wrong" when we lose control over it and it begins to harm us and those we love. It's absolutely a normal part of healthy adult sexuality.

 

Sorry, misread: absolutely disagree.

 

No it's not. It's wrong. The act itself is so wrong and immoral. You're throwing away life when you M.

 

Well, depending on where in Christendom you stand, you get very different views on the morality of it. Thing is, Christianity itself is so much more about the squandering of resources and the oppression of the poor than about sex. And other faiths have as much diversity of interpretation as Christianity.

For the purposes of recovery, I think it's much more helpful to leave the morality of the action itself out of the picture, so that one has less shame and more strength to battle the addictive process.

 

What are you talking about?

 

If we're talking about morality--and I assume that you're Christian, since you liked my outline of the Christian view of sin elsewhere--then the Gospels are chock full of moral imperatives to care for the poor and giving away one's money, and they say very little about sex, except in matters of fidelity.

 

No the masturbation itself is bad that's why every culture has a word for someone who masturbates and it is always an insult never a compliment.

Where do you think the insult "jerk" comes from?

In UK they'll call you a "wanker" or a "tosser" etc...

 

If you aren't an alcoholic it's ok to have a drink now and then. But if you are you shouldn't drink, or you'll relapse. If you are truly addicted to porn and masturbation, you will never be able to do it "The normal way" you might try at first just masturbating once a week, but once turns to twice, then three, and by the time you realize it you're back to square one. So addicts are the exception, and I'm an addict so no, I shouldn't masturbate.

 

I cannot agree with this . Your semen is meant for you to share, not waste . A-lot of people use the whole "Masturbation is normal" idea by getting away with doing it but in the long run, they are just sabotaging themselves... hindering progress to reach their best potential as a human in general . I respect other people's decisions on how they want to live they're life or sex life in general but as for me, I cannot & will not live by that code anymore .