I certainly wasn’t and don’t think the other poster meant you either. Maybe they can’t spell as in, Romea, Romea Whorefore art thou?
I'dont know if you will see this or not but Dr Jordan Peterson once said: When you are in a relationships stay attractive to other girls. It was not about dating multiple girls at the same time but making sure your girlfriend realise that you have value in the eyes of other women. I found it intersting. similar strategy