Idk about most, and I think it's a different experience for every woman, but it kinda did for me. Not fully, but I got into pretty hardcore genres.
Do most men escalate to rape and bdsm? There's a lot of perpetuation of trauma involved in bdsm. If you are aware of most women being sexually assaulted, abused, or raped, you have a hint there. Not all women do, but some do.