Did you remember signs of having this fetish before puberty? Porn induced fetishes are fairly easily reversiblez they require dedication. "Natural" fetishes honestly I don't know, but they can be very succesfully coped with. I have fairly wierd fetish that was a source of major distress for me - furry fetish, but since I managed to distance myself from porn more successfully I see that this interest isn't that much of a problem on it's own, it is a problem when I watch porn because of this. My advice is - don't feel bad because of having strange fetish, focus on reboot and wait for the results. Worrying is not helping and only drains our morale.
That's what I'm trying to figure out as well. I have a foot/boot fetish and I want desperately to get rid of it, but at the same time part of me is scared to leave it behind.
Hey guys so update I’m on day 97 now!! Abs I think about my fetish so much less than I did like atm I’ll have 1 or two thoughts about it when I’m horny but I can easily move on with my day and they’re becoming fewer and far between and I’m so much more attracted to vanilla sexual stuff now!! I’ve still got looong to go before it’s all I’m attracted to but I feel like I could shag people again but we will see
I gave in to my sin tonight. After doing so and feeling some guilt I read your rules. They're very practical and Biblical. I'm going to give them a go. I hate sinning this way, it's getting to the point where it's all I can think about. God bless you