Yep, I've ended up here.

Hello there. I, for one, don't have a porn addiction, i mean i spend under 30 minutes a week on porn. What I do have is a really good imagination. I'm here just to help get myself over the urge of jacking off or to learn how to do it properly. I know it's natural and all that shit but it's starting to really get a grip on my health. I don't wank frequently, but when I am, I'm usually brutal, I hold my breath for as long as I can (I developed this thing, like many other people, to be more silent, while living with my family), I never use lubrication because it just doesn't allow me to feel the thrust. I was really concerned today when I jacked off because i tried breathing normal, and I slowly
"died". I tried watching porn but I'm not really aroused by a screen. It struck me today, no one EVER managed to finish me. All this time I "died" after some time and you can imagine that it was fucking embarrassing, going for close to one hour when the other one, women or guy, whatever, got bored and/or finished once or multiple times while I had to jack myself off just so I could finish once, that being the case if I didn't go numb. I would like some advises, please!