New guy with commitment to no PM

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Emendack, Oct 13, 2017.

  1. Emendack

    Emendack New Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone

    I'm a 29 year old, who's committing to going 100 days without PM (currently at day 6).

    I've had a porn addiction for probably the past 10 years or so. Using porn has been one of my main stress relief tactics, using porn nearly every night to help me relax and fall asleep at night.

    I've decided to finally take on the challenge to give up porn and masturbation for a few reasons:
    • PIED. I find it difficult to get an erection without porn, which is obviously problematic
    • Relationships. I haven't had a relationship for several years, and I think a large part of this is due to porn addiction
    • Productivity. I'm at the point where it can take an hour or two of browsing porn in order to orgasm, which is time I don't want to be spending on this. I have a job where I work long hours, and this time just ends up cutting into my sleep time which guts my ability to work the next day
    • Brain changes. I've read about all the changes that porn addiction makes to your brain, so it's time for a change.
    I've tried sporadically giving up porn, but I've usually only lasted a week or two before giving up. I'm hoping that by making a more formal commitment will help me stay accountable.
     
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  2. @Emendack ,

    Welcome and thanks for the introduction. Your reasons are very well thought out. Keep us informed as to how it's going.

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  3. Mongoose

    Mongoose Fapstronaut

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    Welcome!! You got this!
     
  4. Ayjaydubya

    Ayjaydubya Fapstronaut

    Welcome--good clear goals!

    Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.
    ~ Viktor E. Frankl
     
  5. r8js

    r8js Fapstronaut

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    welcome here. its very encouraging u already avoided pmo for a week .