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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Pag-asa, Dec 2, 2017.

  1. Dec 2, 2017 #1
    Pag-asa

    Pag-asa Fapstronaut

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    Hello,
    I am here because I want to get rid of porn in my life.
    I am a single, 24 years old, who was exposed to pornography by my cousins when I was in Grade 1.
    I was tasked to lead a group in a summer youth camp in our church and I did research about pornography and its effects to the brain as part of my preparation.
    I was stunned to read what the science. I honestly did not imagine the kind of effects it has on a marriage.
    I am also dating a beautiful and amazing woman whom I love so much. Despite that we aren't married yet, I can't imagine causing her the pain it would cause her by the kind of habit I have now. I also can't imagine the psychological effects that it has/would have on me.
    I tried willpower and it only got me as far as 2-3 months, but that's not what I want. I want pornography totally gone from my life.
    So that's why I'm here. I need your help and I know I can't do this alone anymore.
     
    Pag-asa, Dec 2, 2017
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  2. Dec 2, 2017 #2
    Saketh

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    Good luck bro im with you starting today 3rd dec hard mode
     
    Saketh, Dec 2, 2017
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  3. Dec 2, 2017 #3
    bike-wrench

    bike-wrench Fapstronaut

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    Good start. You have some information. The addiction thrives on lies, secrets, and misinformation.

    I'm impressed you made it that far. This is not my first time here; I know all too well about relapse and the lies it brings. You can see by my counter that I'm only got a few weeks, but even to get this far this time, I had to make changes: in my house, in my thinking, in my routine.

    You're going to do it your own way, of course, but I suggest thinking about what goes on before you use P or before you M, and making plans to deal with those things. What changes do you have to make?

    Do the next right thing.
     
    bike-wrench, Dec 2, 2017
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  4. Dec 2, 2017 #4
    Pag-asa

    Pag-asa Fapstronaut

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    Yehey! We can do this!!!
     
    Pag-asa, Dec 2, 2017
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  5. Dec 2, 2017 #5
    Pag-asa

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    Thanks for your reply and your tip. I will note that for myself. But normally, based on how I understand myself now, it's what I do to get rid of a long day's stress.
     
    Pag-asa, Dec 2, 2017
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