What Should I do?

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Nicotavo, Dec 29, 2017.

  1. Nicotavo

    Nicotavo Fapstronaut

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    Hi! I'm 22 and been strugling with porn since 13 yo. From this age, I knew porn was destructive and portrait sex and love in general as something brutal and animal. However, I've never been able to let the addiction go, and I'm pretty sad for it. What Should I do?
    Yes, I am religious, but respecting The secular nature of this forum , I do ask that you fellow members may refrain from that kind of comments. That being Said, you may PM me for This kind of talk
    THX <3
     
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  2. CC6512

    CC6512 Fapstronaut

    quitting something you've been doing for sometime will definitely be difficult.

    First things first. What is your goal? To stop watching porn or stop having sex and watching porn? @Nicotavo
     
  3. Nicotavo

    Nicotavo Fapstronaut

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    Hi! Yes, quiting an habit is quite difficult. I want to quit porn only. I do have a gf actually, but her and I are virgins. I'm afraid that porn may create a certain illusion of sex for me that unconsciously will hinder and damage my Future sex life, as well as my lifestyle
     
  4. Tom_Corsi

    Tom_Corsi Fapstronaut

    It's a bit of a long read, but the following post by @D . J . was perhaps the best one I read when I was looking to get a footing here: `In Case You Didn't Know...

    Welcome aboard! I hope you find what you are seeking!
     
  5. Former_CD

    Former_CD Fapstronaut

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  6. Nicotavo

    Nicotavo Fapstronaut

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    Thx for the help! I will checkout your guides
     
  7. Hi
    Glad you are here. And very welcome to join us in our journey to a healthy, fulfilling life without any self harming habits.

    It's a safe place here. We all are in the same boat, so there is no single space for judgement here.
    Maybe it's a good idea to keep a journal. Sharing your struggles, thoughts and feelings may help you to understand the underlying issues.

    Keep coming back and get the most effort out of nofap!
    You don't need to do it alone!

    I wish you lots of luck!