Hi! I'm 22 and been strugling with porn since 13 yo. From this age, I knew porn was destructive and portrait sex and love in general as something brutal and animal. However, I've never been able to let the addiction go, and I'm pretty sad for it. What Should I do? Yes, I am religious, but respecting The secular nature of this forum , I do ask that you fellow members may refrain from that kind of comments. That being Said, you may PM me for This kind of talk THX <3
quitting something you've been doing for sometime will definitely be difficult. First things first. What is your goal? To stop watching porn or stop having sex and watching porn? @Nicotavo
Hi! Yes, quiting an habit is quite difficult. I want to quit porn only. I do have a gf actually, but her and I are virgins. I'm afraid that porn may create a certain illusion of sex for me that unconsciously will hinder and damage my Future sex life, as well as my lifestyle
It's a bit of a long read, but the following post by @D . J . was perhaps the best one I read when I was looking to get a footing here: `In Case You Didn't Know... Welcome aboard! I hope you find what you are seeking!
Welcome, stopping PMO will be the best decision you can ever make. I promise it will make your life better. Here is a link to my journal with the plan I used to overcome porn and other addictions. I believe that it is a good starting point and my plan may give you some ideas for developing your own plan. https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/no-cross-dressing-re-boot-journal.87827/
Hi Glad you are here. And very welcome to join us in our journey to a healthy, fulfilling life without any self harming habits. It's a safe place here. We all are in the same boat, so there is no single space for judgement here. Maybe it's a good idea to keep a journal. Sharing your struggles, thoughts and feelings may help you to understand the underlying issues. Keep coming back and get the most effort out of nofap! You don't need to do it alone! I wish you lots of luck!