Good girls - where do you meet them?

Just a question for you guys out there.

There are good girls, and then there are the "other" type of girls from my experience.

The other type of girls flock together in large numbers like geese in locations like bars, clubs etc.

The good girl, however, seems to be an eluusive creature. Where do you guys tend to meet them? I have been out of the game a bit but am not trying to find another of the more common of the species but am interested in meeting a good girl.

I'm at the point of wondering whether they are even out there or if I will have to stumble upon one that is standing next to big foot and riding a loch ness monster.

 

I keep hearing library alot. Funny things is, where I grew up in Milwaukee Wisconsin (not there any more but the image is tarnished forever =P) public libraries were a hook-up spot for gay men. Yeah, I know its odd, but after about the 3rd or 4th time you get approached while looking for a book it sort of gets burned in your mind.

(No issues with homosexuals, just not my thing)

I am gonna be starting school again though, and a university library may be a decent option.

Dating site I have to wrap my head around. Making an ad for myself feels bizarre. However it looks like its gaining more and more poularity and becoming a legitimate source for meeting woman.

 

The dog walking is clever.

-To Anne-Dauphine - What I am being told repeatedly regarding talking to and attracting "good" versions of the opposite sex is...(and its going to sound cliche), like attracts like. If you are working hard at being a good person yourself it will attract the same of the opposite sex and the opportunity will tend to present itself in a manner of speaking.

Myself, up until now attracted psychotic, devious, lying woman. This being most likely because I was not necessarily in a good place and sent out a crazy vibe myself.

Interestingly, last night night I met up with someone I was involved with shortly right after my seperation. At that time she was waaaaay in left field. I met up and had lunch with her yesterday due to some mutual issues we needed to discuss and was surprised that she had made some significant positive changes and progress.

Seems that the more I work on bettering myself, the better my surroundings get as well. Of course there is still crazy shit in the world and drama I want no part of, but good intentions combined with active work towards positive progress brings more of what I am striving for in myself with the things that are presented to me in life.

The whole thing sounds cooky I am sure but, if you are busy putting misery out into the world, misery is what you will get back. If you are busy trying to make positive change, positive changes are what you get back. If you live your life as a functional nutcase, nutcases are who will enter your life.

Just my 2 cents.

 

Or, you could be a good guy who ends up a target for bad girls. Good guys get screwed (not in the literal good way) by devious woman all the time. Looking back i can see how I set myself up for it in the past. Location was one reason, but of course an inability or naivete towards being able to spot the red flags of "bad" were the biggest factors.

Guess the question was meant for a location to thin the herd so you dont have to weed through so much "bad" to find a potential "good" girl.

-Oh, and a general rule of thumb. If they shave their eyebrows and color them back in....fuckin run. Just sayin....its a good guideline in my experience =P

 

Heres my thoughts on that...a good girl would be a girl with a respectable set of morals, can be trusted and not be devious. Sincerely.

A bad girl, is a girl pretending to be the above mentioned,however, has the intent to use you for money, possessions etcetera. She is also very loyal...to your face. Then doesnt hesitate to get cocked down behind your back.

You think I am exaggerating maybe. Trust me, I am not. Many, many girls out there use honesty and dishonesty merely as tools to acquire what they want. No innate standard regarding honesty. Many appear to be good girls, but thats only because they know that act will get them a sucker they can take advantage of.

Trust me, we saw them plenty in the military. They are a dime a dozen preying on the naive.

 

Been wondering the same thing bro...like I said, standing next to Bigfoot and riding a Loch Ness Monster.

I think they are all mythical creatures.