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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Nandothebiscuit, Mar 7, 2018.

  1. Nandothebiscuit

    Nandothebiscuit New Fapstronaut

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    Hi people,i'm a 26yo male, i figured out i am addicted to porn..i've been finding difficult to start working on the issue, i've been clean of porn for about 2 months. I've fapped once ir twice alone since. my SO found this forum and i've been reading some threads and found it very inspiring.
    I almost lost my SO because of my porn addiction. I know i need to get better and to work on this
    Best regards to all of you
     
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  2. ChickenWaiver

    ChickenWaiver Fapstronaut

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    Hey there, welcome to the site. I have found many things useful here to help you out. Read the success stories, and stay focused on your goals! I am in a strained relationship with my SO, in part because of P as well. Focus on improving yourself, for YOU, not just the relationship. That way, if the relationship fails, you will still be true to yourself, and be on your way to a better life. Plus, you being better will give her more reasons to want to stay.

    Be strong... you've got this!
     
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  3. Nandothebiscuit

    Nandothebiscuit New Fapstronaut

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    thank you my friend, for the kind words. I am doing this for myself, and this is doing good for my relationship! I want to improve who i am, and she loves me dor who i am and who i want to be.
    How do you even start on this path, other than cuting P and trying to untrigger my p triggers. I used to m whenever i was sad, bored, or feeling bad about myself. Or i needed some control about my life. And i want this to be different. I want to be different.
    Thanks again for the reply!
     
  4. ChickenWaiver

    ChickenWaiver Fapstronaut

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    Find something ELSE to fill your time when you normally find yourself going to P... for me, it is meditation. When I would normally M, now I set a timer for anywhere between 5-15 minutes and meditate... relax, be in the moment. I sounds silly, but it works! And what I said in the last message is very true. You need to do this for you, because you deserve this. That is the only person who owes you anything. You've got this!
     
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  5. Casey Adams

    Casey Adams Fapstronaut

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    Hello. I am also new here :)
     
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  6. Nandothebiscuit

    Nandothebiscuit New Fapstronaut

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    welcome! Hope this forum will help you. I've been reading some things but haven't had the time to post more about it.
    Would you like to share a bit about you or your or a friend, SO, or anyting else experience as a PMO addict?
    :)
     

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