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Nofap is a new start on life

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by me2222, Nov 7, 2014.

  1. me2222

    me2222 Fapstronaut

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    First of all I was very excited when I discovered nofap and found this community. Reading about others' journeys through nofap has been such an encouragement. I just went through a divorce where my whole life was turned upside down. I cheated on her and we were not good to one another for a long time. For a long time there was almost no intimacy and I know without a doubt that was in large part bc of porn. During that time I was very depressed and even had manic episodes. I even went to jail for a short time bc the cops got called on us fighting. Basically things in my life were really f'ed up. Once I started NoFap I got my life back. My depression has gone , I'm motivated again , I'm in the most , loving and healthy relationship I've ever been in my whole life (no comparisons). My social anxiety is gone...basically you name it and its for the better. Most of all I love myself and who I am now. I haven't been perfect I've fapped about 2 or 3 times in the past 3 months but this time its permanent and I can honestly say a bg reason I know that is this community. Why would I ever go back when I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life? For those of you reading this who may be skeptical that NoFap could really change your life this much , believe it. If its done this 4 me it could do it for anyone. Porn is TERRIBLE for us whether your religious or not it messes us up , BAD IMO. Go out there and get your life back be the man or woman you were destined to be... Starting loving youself again so you can go spread that love to others.
     
  2. MattNoFap

    MattNoFap Fapstronaut

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    I can really relate to the loving myself again, and loving others more truly. Understanding their struggle even if they are to ashamed to admit it. I have admitted it to 4 of my best friends, two of them accepted it more. But who cares we are doing this for ourselves.

    I still have some rough patches in my life to overcome. A lot of things to get done, but this site has really been a help to keep me motivated to be a better me. Keeping a journal and writing your thoughts is so powerful. I never really wrote anything down before. But I feel so great being honest and letting the old me go.

    I wish you the best on your journey, stay on course, keep a journal, and keep in touch.

    Matt.
     

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