I went to the beer garden with my best mates. It was great coming back from Austria to be with my best mates.Everything was going great until a girl I knew came into beer garden. I became annoyed with myself and sort of upset for seeing her. Me and this girl were talking to each other a lot in the past and we were a thing. This girl was the sweetest girl and was just amazing. It was really the 1st time I could say I loved a girl, I felt unbeatable around her, she brought the best out of me. But as college was coming to an end, we were losing the chemistry. I was moving away to play football professionally aboard. She couldn’t come to terms that I was going away. I tried to talk to her about my dream to play professional. She didn’t want to talk to me no more. And that I was it, I moved away, not properly saying goodbye her again. Which killed me inside, even though she ended it I just wanted to hug her and say goodbye. When I was abroad, I missed her. I would ring my mates to ask if she’s okay. After 2 years abroad,I heard she moved on ( I have no problem with that), but it hurt to hear that my best mate older brother was with her. It was more of the fact he is a absolutely wanker and is known to cheat. And she deserved someone better then him. When I saw her today in the beer garden, I felt weak and upset that she didn’t acknowledge me but acknowledged the others. I tried to talk to her but her dickhead of her bf was threatening me. I finished my drink and went for a walk and broke down in tears. I don’t usually cry but it really got to me.Seeing her brought back memories I wish I could redo. Is it bad that I still have them feelings for her even after these couple of years????
I dont Think so I would just wait it out i still have feeling for someone who has turned me down many times and we had a thing for a while but now she wont even reply to me and i dont know what i did I understand i cry all the time over her and I dont think it is bad. I know the exact situation you are in because i am in it too.
No, i wouldnt say its bad at all. It sounds like love and love and caring is seldom wrong. I would say you should tell her something. You dont have to spill your guts or anything, but you dont want to regret never saying a proper goodbye. Also if the guy is a "wanker" maybe you should tell her how you feel about him........Obviously im just giving the best advice i can, but i dont know how it truly stands between you or the details of the situation. Good luck and i hope you work it out.
I'm going to go the other way. Avoid her like the plague. Talk to other girls now. Some girls just can't handle when a guy is treating them right. Sounds like she's got issues and you can do better my friend. Take my advice with a grain of salt as I don't know your exact situation. But given what you've said so far, I think you'd have a much better time talking to any other girls! She ignored you, would you do that to a friend or ex partner that you liked? I'm guessing no. Because you have decency and respect. So respect yourself by walking away, that would be my humble suggestion.
