Somebody help me PLEASE

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Luks996, May 9, 2018.

  1. Luks996

    Luks996 Fapstronaut

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    Guys, I have to tell you something

    I'm 21yo, and used to masturbate for porn sitting down for a good amount of years. Turns out that now I can only have good erections when sitting. If I stabd, they drop in a absurd way. I also dont have morning Woods anymore.

    I cannot rely on my bad EQ when standing, since I have a small pênis(5.1 inches not bone pressed) and with decrease erection it wkuld be even smaller.

    Guys, How to fix this?? Someone had this issue here? I'm freaking out. I'm a healhyh Guy, I use to lift weights, now I'm doing cardio and stuff. How to turn this over ?

    I have a girl that is in love with me and I'm getting Very afraid
     
  2. Branchman

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    It could be something related with PC muscles, but I think more that it can be something else. An erection works because the sponge tissue of the pennis gets full of blood at a high pressure. Have you noticed that when you excersice the muscles you're excercising get warm, and if you're making cardio or excercising a big muscle or muscles, your pennis get smaller?
    You should see a doctor for more exact and accurate information.
    But don't feel bad about the "size", it doesn't matter too much, woman don't care much about that (at least most of them or that is known about them) and remember that real love does not depends on physical or temporary things.
     
  3. I've heard this from one or 2 other guys here.
     
  4. Luks996

    Luks996 Fapstronaut

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    As I Said, the size doesnt concern me that much. But the EQ do!
    I dont know what to do since I looked for every knowledge about this and found some stuff, but not a clear fix. My doctor says that at my age EQ depends only on my confidence and it is ALL on my headt ,this makes no Sense for me ! I cant get these Full erection in any other position than sitting(fap fap position).
    I dont know if this is a conditioning issue, a pelvic floor issue or a venous leak one. I'm trully hoping That Reboot can solve this
     
  5. Luks996

    Luks996 Fapstronaut

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    I can feel the heat and my muscles pumping up when I workout. And yes, when I exercise a lot, my penis get smaller. Dude, I cant found any fix to this issue. I think PMO fucked my brain. I also cannot stay erect without stimulation.

    I didnt have sex yet, so I'm not sure if sere a girl naked will get me a higher EQ
     
  6. Have you stopped PMOing? You won't know what your real situation is until you've stopped for a while.
     
  7. Luks996

    Luks996 Fapstronaut

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    I've stopped for 4 days. But let's suppose this is a pelvic floor issue due to bad masturnation habits. What am I supposed to do?
     
  8. 4 days is nothing. Give it 4 weeks or 4 months (actually, the rest of your life, but you don't have to wait that long to see the effects). At your age, this shit will just work itself out if you stop PMOing.
     
  9. That is an average size penis, so it is good to hear you are not worried about it. :)
     
  10. Luks996

    Luks996 Fapstronaut

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    But Immature, as I Said... I have a girl. I didnt had sex with her yet. Is It a rrlwpse If I do, and have anexo orgasm,?

    I hope my age trully makes it that way. I have seen guys with similar age with pelvic issues. Similar issues : getting soft standigs , no morning wood and erection fading away as soon as stimulation stops.

    I'm already doing kegels and reverse kegels. Even tho I can't hold a Kegel for more than 2 secs and reverse kegels feel like trying to shit on my pants
     
  11. It is not a relapse to have sex with your girlfriend.

    You might benefit from abstaining from that, as well as from P & M, for a while. Some people do, some people don't.
     
  12. Luks996

    Luks996 Fapstronaut

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    My man... I'm on a cliff hanger right now. My sypyomss matches with pelvic floor issue or even venous leaks.

    I'm putting a LOT of Hope on nofap. I'm looking for my doctor on the next weeks to be sure.
     
  13. It's never a bad idea to check with the doctor. I am certainly generalizing in my comments, based on what I've heard so many times here from other guys who do NoFap. I wish you nothing but good luck.
     
  14. Branchman

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    I currently don't do PC excersices, I have 21 years, as you.
    I'm not a doctor but for what you're saying it sounds as ED (Erectile Disfunction), and I don't think that fapping seated can make a physical problem as the ones you say (but I read once of a guy who got a venous leak because he got ED, so he started using drugs to reach erections, and after some time he got a venous leak, and he made himself (with medical care) an artificial way to get erections. So based on that guy experience you have hope). With time your mind will heal, and lets wait what the doctor says.
     
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  16. Foxislander

    Foxislander Fapstronaut

    , if you want some help me and my wife are on a 220 Day deal no pmo that's right limited touch hugs and holding restoring our intimacy if you want some help please feel free to set me up with a I can set you up with a WhatsApp thing