Really want to stop

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by hmmdonuts, Apr 22, 2018.

  1. hmmdonuts

    hmmdonuts Fapstronaut

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    Hi ive have introduced before but i wanted to cover a bit more

    Im trying to.have a hard reset as i feel i have lost the inability to be truly intimate in my relationship. Ive questioned am.in the right relationship but dont feel i have a propet relationship until i quit.

    I grew up late and didnt talk sex with my parents. I also didnt masturbate till my 20s. Ive always had wierd fetish (ladies desp for the loo) and this has led me to having delayed ejaculation problens , ed and i sometimes orgasm whilst not erect. Ive had the addiction for over 10 years and i feel sometimes theres no.hope. i often fantasise about that.

    Ive done well recently with me stopping the visual side of porn but i would still read toilet stories. I really want to stop completely and i hope it will help me sort my current relationship out as sex should be enjoyable intimate and not frustrating like it is.

    The ed and other problems really make me feel like im not a man
     
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  2. PMO addict

    PMO addict Fapstronaut

    Hi hmmdonuts! Thank you :)
     
  3. Septimus

    Septimus Fapstronaut

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    Welcome! I'm glad you're here.

    I have found that getting away from porn and masturbation helps me feel much more like a man -- because I'm more in control, and more generous, rather than all about myself and all about pleasure.

    Keep coming back!
     
  4. Anshuman98

    Anshuman98 New Fapstronaut

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    Hello guys, I need help, i need to quit this habit, it has taken a humongous toll on my life and i don't want it to screw me up! PLS can somebody be my AP? or support me?
    Thanks!
     
  5. hmmdonuts

    hmmdonuts Fapstronaut

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    Thanks im determined not to look at porn or masturbate. Im done 3 weeks in my recent restart although i had some assisted masturbation with my wife