Hi I am Lavina from mumbai Gone addicted to pornography And masterbation want to over come on it I am an account an drafting engineer
Hi lavina, can you pls elaborate on your porn habits, since when you are doing it, and major reason you can figure out for doing ??
Just by word of porn and sex makes me excited after couple of hours I can't stop thinking about fingering then I watch porn and finger to get over it If I watched romantic scenes also or seen someone talking about sex and all in office or something g every little thing triggers me
Okay lavina, since how long you have been doing this, were you in relation before ? Or are u in relation right now ? When you finger yourself are u trying to achieve Gspot ? Are you hyper sexual ? You feel like doing it anywhere anytime ??
Yes many times I use office washroom to calm down and to get focus on work I have to do once atleast daily weekly I do 10 times average
Lol...If you need any help then tell me.I will help u .i am also from india..And on day 136.....So we are indian
Hi. Welcome to forum! Make sure you crate a personal journal thread in Reboot Logs section and blog there on a regular basis. As well as just generally be active participant in various forum discussions. I recommend this to everybody new here because it's the major thing that helped me when I was first starting. Just lurking on forums, reading and learning is great. But it usually is so much more powerful to engage. It helps to keep us motivated and accountable when we are active part of community. And keeps this in front of our minds so we don't forget about importance of it and slip away in our old habits. Sharing is also therapeutic. This is a major reason why AA meetings work so good. But that was developed before internet era. These days we can get most of the same benefits online through communities like this. So don't underestimate the power of active participation. I would also like to suggest you to look into mindfulness meditation. It has helped me personally tremendously to learn how to deal with urges. It takes a while to get good at it and notice results, so you need to be consistent with it, but once you do it's very powerful. It has been used by sages for thousands of years to deal with various issues of the mind. And in recent decades the science is also catching up to what ancient sages have know for centuries. Meditation these days are widely used as very effective tool by psychologists for treating addiction and by neurologists for supporting recovery of the brain. It is a great exercise for the brain the same way as jogging is great exercise for the body. Check out this Ted talk, it gives a good idea of what's it about when it comes to philosophy. As far as practical side of it there is this awesome smartphone app called Headspace for guided meditations to get you started. Wish you lot's of strength and success in your reboot journey!