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I cant believe women anymore / feel lost

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Chamillion, Aug 13, 2018.

  1. Aug 13, 2018 #1
    Chamillion

    Chamillion New Fapstronaut

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    It's been a long struggle with porn addiction, i've known about nofap for about 5 years now. I've rebooted and relapsed countless times, it would always be my way to escape something in my life. Ive been addicted to sissy hypno in particular, and other hardcore fetish porn for a long time. I've even shaved my whole body and bought alot of lingerie and made an anonymous account on kik to show off and flirt with men because the hypno told me so. I then smoked weed aswell and had the worst paranoia that i have ever felt in my life.

    i felt so incredibly lost. During this time i also had a girlfriend who lives in another country and she has no idea about any of this. the shaving was about two months ago and since that time i havent felt horny and my interactions with women have been very stunted. i havent watched porn aswell. i just cant care anymore.

    the problem is that i cant believe women want sex, they are just involuntarily submitting to their biology, and men have to "trick" women into sleeping with them, by employing dating techniques such as being extremely masculine, pretend not to care much about them, and alot of other mind games.

    i dont know how to get my sex drive back. i actually had sex with my girlfriend when she was back and i barely stayed hard. i cant even MO at home because it just doesn't feel good. all of this is affecting my life in a bad way. i hope somebody can shed some light on my situation

    thanks
     
    Chamillion, Aug 13, 2018
    Chamillion, Aug 13, 2018
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  2. Aug 13, 2018 #2
    __zeXon__

    __zeXon__ Fapstronaut

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    Take a break from dating and sex for a while
     
    __zeXon__, Aug 13, 2018
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  3. Aug 13, 2018 #3
    Jason_Tesla_19

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    If you haven't watch porn or masturbated or had sex in about two months, you might just be in a flatline. Continuing to abstain should result in your natural sexuality returning.

    Men don't want sex, either. They're just involuntarily submitting to their biology! :p
     
    Jason_Tesla_19, Aug 13, 2018
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  4. Aug 14, 2018 #4
    the booger bear

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    I would recommend if you don't like doing this ^, and prefer women. Maybe instead of having a girlfriend from another country, have a girlfriend that is next door or ask your girl to move in?
     
    the booger bear, Aug 14, 2018
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  5. Aug 15, 2018 #5
    Target365

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    It happened with me as well few months back, my ex girlfriend, she is a psychopath. I had to move to another place change my number to get rid of her. To be honest It was so scared when I realised she is psychopath because I know she will do something crazy and in the end she did. Somehow I moved to another place changed my number. After that I have decided not to be in any kind of a relationship because its very difficult for me to trust anyone. My Sexual drive was zero but it's been 7 months now and part of me wants to be in a relationship again but with right kind of girl and part of me still scared to be in wrong relationship and ruined my life. So my advice is get back to your life and focus on yourself and try to be the kind of person you want to attract and in the end have faith in the universe.
     
    Target365, Aug 15, 2018
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