So I am fap free since Dec 20th. On the 13th wife wife said she didn't love me anymore. We have both neglected our relationship and it came to a head on the 13th. She is still here but just barely. My porn use may have contributed to me treating her like an object and not being respective of her needs. I am doing all I can to save my marriage which includes no fapping. I hope and pray with God's help and my self control we will make it through. Even if we don't make it I will be past the addiction.
That's tough. NoFap can potentially help you reset your perspective, not only on yourself but on your relationship as well. Relationships are tough, and a lot of work. I was in a similar circumstance when I first began back in 2013. While it didn't help me salvage my relationship, it did help me change my perspective and bounce back from that loss. I wish you luck in everything. It will be hard, but it can be done! Keep it up!
Dear Matthew. I did not manage to save my marriage so I want to say: "go for it with all you got - she is worth it and deserves so much more!" I wish you the best of luck along the way and I just joined here and will try to back you up if of interest. -P
Realising and counter the problem is a big step forward. Two person being together need a lot of effort. Now whenever I am confused or lost, I will always look back the first place where we had fall in love. It also has helped me a lot. The power of love is a great force when you believe in it MAY THE FORCE BE WITH YOU !!!!
