Former Male Porn Star, Randy Spears's testimony

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Ra's Al Ghul, Sep 16, 2018.

  1. Ra's Al Ghul

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    I don't even need to listen.
    I kicked porn definitively a few years ago, and will never come back to this.
    It is an absolutely ugly business, actress are exploited and humiliated, it only resorts to the most glooming aspect of sexuality. Girls are broken, go home crying and using drugs, men are presented like animals, only the most primitive aspect of sexuality is evoked. Diseases are rampant.
    If there are some young men begining their sex life around here, you should really avoid porn and masturbation. If you want women to like you, just learn to know them, their personnalities, needs and particularities, without having sex on your mind. Learn to gueninely have interest in them. Connect with them.Of course try to look good and so on...
    Porn does the exact opposite to you
    That's how you do it. All the rest is bullshit, all humans are the same and need connection and love, but women need it even more than men.
    I trully hate pornography.
     
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    Can you tell if people are damaging their.mental state by being told to basically be treated like a circus animal stripped naked without their dignityand be on a schedule to "perform in front of the camera".

    Do we get to see the lives these porn stars live? Its often hard for them to get a real partner because they are trained not to have emotional attachments to lovers and who wants someone who has been rooted by 300 different people with a high chance of a disease?

    Humans deserve to be treated better than animals. Some are poor and just do it for their families, some agree to do it because they feel worthless and feel like they are just a piece of meat. Some enjoy being degraded because they don't know any other life.

    Lots of moral questions here. But ultimately what were humans made for? To have a loving lifelong partner who they exclusively become vulnerable with sexually, mentally, emotionally, for life perhaps?

    Where does multiple relationships or sex working or voyeurism end up?...hmm I think a pretty dark place like you have experienced it seems
     
  5. Ra's Al Ghul

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    Randy Spears is every man if they had the chance. "I am Randy Spears". Every sinner would rather deny their sins.
     
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  6. Exactly this.
     
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  7. Every dirty things occur in this world for two reason either to satisfy someone desire or to earn money. The purpose of porn industry was to earn massive profits like any other business but the difference was they never cared about their customer and they never if it turns them to animals and run after women to rape her. I feel sympathy to this actor for what he did in his life . Karma pays you back
    I don't care his testimony cause it wont give me back my life or happiness or bad things i did in my life
    But i am glad he decided to live a good life
     
  8. Mattew

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    Seen the video a month ago, i think it's really useful for porn addicts.