I Feel That There's No Hope for Me and I'm at The End of My Rope

I've only had sex once, 3.5 years ago and it's starting to seem unlikely that I'll ever have it again. So I guess I'm in a similar position as you are in some ways.

It's really only a problem if you think it is. People can be single and happy for years. There are monks who have lived their whole life in total celibacy. Dalai Lama for example, does he look unhappy?

What sometimes worries me, and I wouldn't be surprised if it were the same for you, is that people might be judgmental in the future and consider me a weirdo if they found out about my lack of experience. But that hasn't really happened to me yet, since I don't talk about it. Something like that might happen in the future though, but worrying about it now doesn't do me any good. Some people might think I'm a weirdo but if I analyze it deeply, I find that it doesn't really matter what people think of me. I couldn't stand being hated or disliked but just being considered a little weird doesn't really affect me.

This hasn't become a problem yet since I don't talk about it and it might not become a problem in the future either. I think it's becoming more and more common with older singles and virgins in most of the western world, so it's not something that is completely unheard of.

Besides, some lifelong virgins include Isaac Newton and Nikola Tesla. So you don't have to feel bad about it.

I never want to have children and it wouldn't be fair for me to have a girlfriend and then keep her from that. So it's for the best that I'm forever alone. I'm really doing the world a service in not contributing to the overpopulation.

 

I completely agree that you should live life to the fullest and do what you desire

My post was quite inappropriate because you're still a teenager and who knows what your future holds. I was mostly rambling to myself, sorry about that.

What I'm saying is that worrying doesn't do you any good, obviously worrying about worrying won't make anything better either. Just accept what is. If you leave your mind alone it will eventually calm down on its own. It might get worse at first but just be patient. That's my advice.

So live your life to the fullest, but being attached to an ideal of how it should be is not a very good idea in my opinion. Just see what happens.

 

Dude, im 19 years old, about to make 20, im not virgim, i lost with hoes, but never had sex without paying, so i can say that im mentaly virgim, i have the same troubles of u, less the drugs and the frequency of depression, ive picked 9 girls in my entirely life, even my parents of 15 years, 14 have got more girls than me, i dont have appearence problems for real and i will give u some tips that helped for me.

1st go lose your virginity with a hoe, u will remove a little of the heavy on your shoulders, after do it, u will feel like inside two worlds, the virgin world and the non-virgin world, like i am actually, i can feel your feelings, its exactly what i feel, probably u are more depressed cuz gave no kiss, for real i got more exciting with kisses than with sex with hoe, probably u gonna feel it too. Do it please brother, its important and gonna help u, i know how hard is to answer if u are a virgin or not, and after that u can answer u arent and others things that gonna help to remove that pain in your heart.

2nd, read pick up books, like Conquer your campus(that one made me OP in my college, i have girls near me, i kissed two after read it, i was almost 2 years without kiss no girl), The Game, etc, go look for PUA forums, they help with, my actual personality is OP and those foruns and books helped me on build it.

3rd u stayed 150 days without fap, i stayed max 100 days, what is 10 days more than the challenge, but i should have stay on the challenge instead of fap all again, u are strong, u need objective and fix it, i restarted the nofap challenge cause of a trouble in my social with a girl, that made me leave my confort zone, so im now with 3 weeks NoFap and porn, i can say that Pua knowledge+NoFap made me get this social that i have today, i know girls i lead they, i lead men, etc. So what i recommend u is go on with NoFap, and keep in your mind those thinks "Im so far on NOFAP that if i fap again, i will need to do it all again, and lose time of my life", like now i think, im 3 weeks already in nofap, if i fap i will feel fking bad cuz i will take 3 more weeks to be where i were only because of a faping, and its time lost of your life.
Make NoFap and get pick up knowledge is what i recommend.

4rt I know what u feel in the depression, all the thinks, like, all my friends lost theyr virginity, youngers one are losting theyr virginity and getting more girls than me, etc, the difference between me and u are the frequence we have that depression mode, i have it rarely, but i have, mainly when i go hang out with my best friend and he keeps remembering that im a "virgin" and what i will do about, etc.
Again go get pick up knowledge to help with your personality, add friends, add girls to your life, and u will worry less with those problems, and your depression will be rarely like my one.

Be strong brother we are here to help u, u are not alone

 

Dude, im 19 years old, about to make 20, im not virgim, i lost with hoes, but never had sex without paying, so i can say that im mentaly virgim, i have the same troubles of u, less the drugs and the frequency of depression, ive picked 9 girls in my entirely life, even my parents of 15 years, 14 have got more girls than me, i dont have appearence problems for real and i will give u some tips that helped for me.

1st go lose your virginity with a hoe, u will remove a little of the heavy on your shoulders, after do it, u will feel like inside two worlds, the virgin world and the non-virgin world, like i am actually, i can feel your feelings, its exactly what i feel, probably u are more depressed cuz gave no kiss, for real i got more exciting with kisses than with sex with hoe, probably u gonna feel it too. Do it please brother, its important and gonna help u, i know how hard is to answer if u are a virgin or not, and after that u can answer u arent and others things that gonna help to remove that pain in your heart.

2nd, read pick up books, like Conquer your campus(that one made me OP in my college, i have girls near me, i kissed two after read it, i was almost 2 years without kiss no girl), The Game, etc, go look for PUA forums, they help with, my actual personality is OP and those foruns and books helped me on build it.

3rd u stayed 150 days without fap, i stayed max 100 days, what is 10 days more than the challenge, but i should have stay on the challenge instead of fap all again, u are strong, u need objective and fix it, i restarted the nofap challenge cause of a trouble in my social with a girl, that made me leave my confort zone, so im now with 3 weeks NoFap and porn, i can say that Pua knowledge+NoFap made me get this social that i have today, i know girls i lead they, i lead men, etc. So what i recommend u is go on with NoFap, and keep in your mind those thinks "Im so far on NOFAP that if i fap again, i will need to do it all again, and lose time of my life", like now i think, im 3 weeks already in nofap, if i fap i will feel fking bad cuz i will take 3 more weeks to be where i were only because of a faping, and its time lost of your life.
Make NoFap and get pick up knowledge is what i recommend.

4rt I know what u feel in the depression, all the thinks, like, all my friends lost theyr virginity, youngers one are losting theyr virginity and getting more girls than me, etc, the difference between me and u are the frequence we have that depression mode, i have it rarely, but i have, mainly when i go hang out with my best friend and he keeps remembering that im a "virgin" and what i will do about, etc.
Again go get pick up knowledge to help with your personality, add friends, add girls to your life, and u will worry less with those problems, and your depression will be rarely like my one.

Be strong brother we are here to help u, u are not alone

 

Dude, im 19 years old, about to make 20, im not virgim, i lost with hoes, but never had sex without paying, so i can say that im mentaly virgim, i have the same troubles of u, less the drugs and the frequency of depression, ive picked 9 girls in my entirely life, even my parents of 15 years, 14 have got more girls than me, i dont have appearence problems for real and i will give u some tips that helped for me.

1st go lose your virginity with a hoe, u will remove a little of the heavy on your shoulders, after do it, u will feel like inside two worlds, the virgin world and the non-virgin world, like i am actually, i can feel your feelings, its exactly what i feel, probably u are more depressed cuz gave no kiss, for real i got more exciting with kisses than with sex with hoe, probably u gonna feel it too. Do it please brother, its important and gonna help u, i know how hard is to answer if u are a virgin or not, and after that u can answer u arent and others things that gonna help to remove that pain in your heart.

2nd, read pick up books, like Conquer your campus(that one made me OP in my college, i have girls near me, i kissed two after read it, i was almost 2 years without kiss no girl), The Game, etc, go look for PUA forums, they help with, my actual personality is OP and those foruns and books helped me on build it.

3rd u stayed 150 days without fap, i stayed max 100 days, what is 10 days more than the challenge, but i should have stay on the challenge instead of fap all again, u are strong, u need objective and fix it, i restarted the nofap challenge cause of a trouble in my social with a girl, that made me leave my confort zone, so im now with 3 weeks NoFap and porn, i can say that Pua knowledge+NoFap made me get this social that i have today, i know girls i lead they, i lead men, etc. So what i recommend u is go on with NoFap, and keep in your mind those thinks "Im so far on NOFAP that if i fap again, i will need to do it all again, and lose time of my life", like now i think, im 3 weeks already in nofap, if i fap i will feel fking bad cuz i will take 3 more weeks to be where i were only because of a faping, and its time lost of your life.
Make NoFap and get pick up knowledge is what i recommend.

4rt I know what u feel in the depression, all the thinks, like, all my friends lost theyr virginity, youngers one are losting theyr virginity and getting more girls than me, etc, the difference between me and u are the frequence we have that depression mode, i have it rarely, but i have, mainly when i go hang out with my best friend and he keeps remembering that im a "virgin" and what i will do about, etc.
Again go get pick up knowledge to help with your personality, add friends, add girls to your life, and u will worry less with those problems, and your depression will be rarely like my one.

Be strong brother we are here to help u, u are not alone