About your So Triggers https://www.covenanteyes.com/2017/05/02/wife-has-triggers-too/ Ladies this hits the mark so clear
I expressed a trigger once, without blame, just explaining my feelings. It was not received well. He's not there yet to hear it. Eventually. Until then, I work through them on my own.
Same . Until . Until he was ready and I was stilll so scared to admit I was triggered but he handled them way better than expected.
Yes. It was quite a while ago. He wasnt in the right mindset to watch them then. I wont remind him or push him to now. He's got them saved on his computer though, so when he's ready, he will again. He's made great strides in other areas and recovery is going well. He'll get there.
I loved that article. I’ll be sending it to my husband. I live in the hell of triggers every day. I’m so tired by it. I woke up this morning and the very first thing I saw was my husband on his phone. It immediately triggered me to respond angrily and ask why he’s always on his damn phone, why he looks at it first thing in the morning, etc. just immediately makes me think that he’s looking at stuff he shouldn’t be looking at and it hurts.