No hard dick

Hey everyone, i started watching porn when I was 13, nowadays i'm 26 so for the last 13 years i've only lived with porn and masturbation. I decided to quit this shit and today I've reached 70 days since I stopped watching porn and fapping. The day I decided to start nofap was also the day I met my current and first in my life girlfriend (decision of nofap was first, it's important in my opinion)

For the first 5 weeks everything went perfect as it should, I mean: no masturbation, no thoughts about porn, appearence of the morning woods and wet dreams.

After that time, for the first time, I jumped into the bed with my girlfriend, we didn't have normal sex, she gave me only a handjob and a blowjob, my dick was hard that time and looked normal that time.

The problem appeared next time (we meet once a week due to the distance), when we tried to have sex. My dick was hard when she gave me hand job, but when we decided to have sex, it become soft. We tried few times with the same result. After that time i noticed that i have problem to make him hard again even when she want to make me a handjob, so she must to try very hard to make me pleasure that way.

I don't know what is going on, do you think that this is normal in nofap and i just wanted to fast to have normal sex with normal girl and i should wait and tell her that even handjob must wait?

The truth is that, curently, when I look on any girl, it doesn't make my horny or hard, and there are no sexual thoughts. Mayby it's flatline.... i have no idea, i noticed that even i can't make myself hard in short time.

Anyone else going through this?