Wet dreams vs mastrubation

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by BillTchmer, Jan 1, 2019.

  1. BillTchmer

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    Are wet dreams as dangerous as mastrubation.
    I have quitted porn mastrubation. Now my body is inclined towards wet dreams
     
  2. Nope, wet dreams are not within your control - except control of your food and meditation and disciplining your eyes.

    Try to limit your meat and focus on fruits and veggies and light meal and wake up early that can help.

    The discharge from a wet dream is very very mild compared to masterbation.

    This book has lots of good tips on avoiding wetdreams :)

    http://www.dlshq.org/download/brahmacharya.pdf
     
  3. U will have wet dreams at the beginning, ur organs are used to produce a lot of semen, then it will slow down. If u are thinking all the day about sex u will get more wet dreams too. Wet dreams aren't dangerous its a natural process, u release less semen than fapping.
     
  4. N M

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    Dont sleep on your stomach, the rubbing of your tool over the bed may lead to wet dreams. Sleep with the head facing eastwards and sleeping on the left side is the best position to sleep. Empty your bladder before you going to sleep. Try to read motivational books before sleep...
     
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  5. Wet dreams suck big day but they are definitely not bad as masturbation is.
    I simply know that because whoever I used to MO I felt INCREDIBLY guilty afterwards, after a WD all I feel is just some anger which fades away quickly ,but no guilt at all.
     
  6. ultrafabber

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    Incorrect, they are within your control. It's completely abnormal for a sexually matured man to get wet dreams. Wet dreams are a sign of the addiction still being present.

    If you are very strict about abstaining, you will notice you will get less wet dreams and you will usually stop them unconsciously before you ejaculate.

    If you spend the day fantasizing or edging, you will almost always get wet dreams.
     
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  7. bloomz

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    Very
    very interesting point!! Do you have any more info on this, or just from your experience & what you’ve gathered from other guys here?
     
  8. Infrasapiens

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    Sometimes I fill my underwear with toilet paper at night, it has only worked once. Do not feel bad about them, even if you can control them it is a hard thing to do.
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  9. Mahatma Gandhi being the greatest brahmacharya had wet dreams. It is NOT within your conscious control.

    You can influence it through the discipline of thoughts, words and deed as i mentioned - but you are not able to control it when you are dreaming.

    Based on the fact that 99.999 people watch porn and use sex to numb their emotions , it is more normal to have wet dreams than not.

    If you take the perspective of an enlightened being who has transcended lust all together - which is a great goal to aspire for - then yes you are correct wet dream is an indication that more purifying is left to be done.

    But show me some one who you know has done this and I'll show you an advanced yogi who has mastered his mind and emotions or some one who suffers from poor health.
     
  10. ultrafabber

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    Ghandi was a weirdo that stopped having sex with his wife and slept in bed with underage girls to prove his asceticism. And many other dumb stuff. He is definitely not a role model for sexuality.

    No, that is silly also. Sex is completely normal and natural when you do it with your partner. There's nothing impure about it.
     
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  11. Hros

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    Work to rid your mind of PMO-related thoughts as those, especially long fantasies are often the cause of wet dreams. The less PMO thoughts you have, the less wet dreams you'll get.
     
  12. phwrancesco

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    Don0t worry about wet dreams man,they're a good sign. Plus you can't keep your seed inside you forever
     
  13. ultrafabber

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    Yes, of course you can. Semen is not supposed to ooze out of you. That's literally NOT how the body works. Unused sperm gets recycled and that's it. You don't HAVE to ejaculate like you HAVE to eat, sleep, drink water.

    I'm not advocating for semen retention, obviously if you have a partner you should go ahead and ejaculate as much as you want.

    But when you're single there is literally no need to ejaculate.
     
  14. phwrancesco

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    You have to ejaculate, in fact if you don't ejaculate during the day you end up ejaculating during the sleep.
     
  15. ultrafabber

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    That is incorrect. It's just a myth.
     
  16. phwrancesco

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    Man, it's personal experience and definitely not a myth.

    Have you ever reached the point when you have wet dreams?
     
  17. ultrafabber

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    Personal experience does not make the behavior normal.

    Yes, i had wet dreams and they also pretty much stopped when I was on good streak (no sex either)
     
  18. phwrancesco

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    In fact thats what i'm saying.
    But personal experience of 100% of people who tried i think make one thing natural at least.
     
  19. ultrafabber

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    Alcoholics for example go though a very severe withdrawal that can kill them. While completely abnormal in the general sense, it's also completely normal for all severe alcoholics to go through this.

    My point is that yes, wet dream may/could be expected for a porn/masturbation addict, but it's not a normal behavior for a normal person
     
  20. u376

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    I think you should study on this topic in detail
    Mahatma Gandhi "self control practices" are quite debatable