Is there any guarantee that PIED can be cured doing NoFap?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by RamboErecto, Jan 10, 2019.

  1. RamboErecto

    RamboErecto Fapstronaut

    Hello. Im Lucas, 29, im an addict!

    Atheist, regular PMO user (1-2 per day)

    I started more or less to do PMO at the age of 14. I used to have strong erections during sex until age of 23, anyway that erection is loss after penetration, and the vaginal sex gives me not pleasure (Mainly for the use of condom, wich never helps to cure my PIED).

    Never tried sex without a condom since im very concerned about sexual transmision diseases. The last few times i had sex i get like a 15%-20% erection, wich sucks. Also used pills a few times, for enjoy the sex (more or less), i mean, i have to M and throw the semen on the girl, and even that is hard for me. I feel like im almost unable to cum during a real sex performance.

    Started NoFap a few months ago, with some archievements done but nothing serious. I feel like i should not quit PMO, because i dont have any guarantee that PIED will be cured after 3-4 months of hard mode.

    Theres some people that can PMO and have normal sex (Tons of my friends), but i know im different, since im abusing of phornography. I know that is a habit that i need to correct, but i feel like that if i fix that habit, i will still have PIED.

    What should i do?
    Thank you for read :)
     
  2. Coolyorky

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    Erectile dysfunction has skyrocketed in young males (including myself) due to pmo. Abstain from P until your erections return.

    I’m gradually improving. The addiction can try trick you. Do t relapse brother. Only time can fix this.

    We’ve all had this feeling about a garunteed cure but stay the course!
     
  3. If there is something physically wrong then, no.
    The nice things about abstaining from PMO is, it won't hurt you, it's not a medication and it doesn't cost you a thing, money wise. If you don't want to go to a doctor and check on physical issues, give this a shot, go your 90 days and see how things are going. Make sure you give it your all.
     
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  4. bigboibez

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    It is guaranteed to solve PIED as long as you have no organic issues.
    If you feel fine in yourself and well, it's likely that PMO is causing the issues.
    Stick at it for as long as it takes. some people on youtube like gabe deem said it took 9 months of complete abstinence for his PIED to be cured, but it was worth it.
    Good luck
     
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  5. henry3526

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    This!!! And then abstain some more. Infact, never return to porn again. The moment you do you'll fall back into the trap of being a regular user. If your ED is due to porn then it will also go away with abstaining from porn, but it will also come back if you return to the dark side...
     
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  6. Coolyorky

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    Guarantee
    Guarantee*yes I correct my own spelling!


    You’re right. Never go back to P. Real, loving relationships are best
     
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  7. bigboibez

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    correct. unless youre religious you probably wont be happy (or particularly healthy) from abstaining for life. PMO has to be replaced with something. If it is not, you'll return to it...
     
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  8. henry3526

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    Definitely. I think p+m should be replaced with something else. O shouldn’t be abstained from, it should be what you do with your wife and not a computer screen
     
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  9. RedEd101

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    I'd agree that only time, and not watching porn or capping can cure this. I used to suffer from pied but overcame this after a good NoFap streak. The next stage is important - once you are able to get hard and successfully have sex with a partner, your confident grows and it is much easier for then on. Your mindset changes as sex with a partner (rather than porn) becomes the norm. I'm at a stage now.where my gf can stroke my arm or leg and I get a 100% boner.

    Just keep working and make sure to stay away from porn. Sex will get easier after NoFap and then the first couple of successful experiences!

    Red Ed
     
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  10. Coolyorky

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    How long did it take to cure mate? I know it’s different for everyone but it’s a question I can’t help ask haha
     
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  11. RedEd101

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    Hi mate. No worries. I reckon it took a couple of months for me. There was no porn or fapping during this time though at all. Once I had a good sexual encounter with my now girlfriend (I stayed hard throughout and also managed to cum which was huge for me), my confidence began to build each time we met to the point where I don't even think about ED now. It still takes me a while to finish sometimes but only if I've been drinking.
     
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  12. Coolyorky

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    That’s great! Well done bro
     
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  13. MarinoBigFan1984

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    There is no guarantee of anything in most aspects of life. It’s your call bro.
     
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  14. Salute77

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    You're going to get the use of your penis back after no porn. It may however take months for this to happen. AND you really have to greatly cut out the pornography. Anything other than greatly getting rid of porn is not going to be good enough and you mine as well consider your ED as not going away. You will also start getting your testosterone back. Which means a list of great positive effects.

    BTW The only reason why I have such a high amount of days without porn is because Jesus Christ took it away from me. I prayed for it many times. In the midst of my pornography addiction Jesus just took it away, poof gone, no more urges. I still get promptings to use porn but i wouldnt call them urges. God totally answered my prayers. Pray to Jesus despite being an atheist. Start a relationship. It really works.

    I'll pray for you and in fact already did.
     
  15. RamboErecto

    RamboErecto Fapstronaut

    Thanks for all the answers, i will continue my fight

    too bad that i always relapse without a week of try it. After day 5 it become almost impossible to me
     
  16. Clarke

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    There's no guarantees about anything in life. It's entirely possible that you permanently fucked up the sensitivity of your penis. However, the only chance you have is if you change what your doing. If you keep doing what you're doing, you'll get more of what you've already got.

    8 months ago I couldn't get hard enough for vaginal sex 9 times out of 10 and the one time I could I couldn't feel anything even without a condom. Yesterday I managed to have sex successfully with a condom. Ymmv but it's definitely possible.
     
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  17. Reboot16

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    Hello Lucas - let me assure you, things will get better as long as you don't have a physical problem. I know it's scary at the outset because you're worried it'll always be like this. It won't as long as you don't have a physical problem with your body. You just need to make some changes to your lifestyle.

    Let me make a suggestion that I believe within a month or so will make a pretty big difference for you -

    * Only masturbate once every 3 days at most, and try to go 5 days if you can.
    * When you masturbate, assuming you're a straight male, only think about having regular sex with a girl. Do not fantasize about anything extreme (having a threesome, whips and chains, etc.) and do not fantasize about a porn star. What worked for me was thinking about a girl I knew at work, or somewhere else in real life and just imagining a relatively standard sexual scenario unfolding - maybe she's straddling you on the couch and you're making out, and you gradually move to getting naked in the bedroom to fully having sex, etc. Imagine that full scenario, kissing etc. and how it would feel. Stroke your dick slow, and don't death grip it. If you can't get hard in this scenario after 3-5 minutes of thinking through it, then YOU'RE NOT READY TO MASTURBATE so don't force it at this point.
    * This one is really important but doesn't seem like it at the outset (SERIOUSLY this is REALLY REALLY IMPORTANT) - DO NOT FANTASIZE. When you find yourself starting to think about sex / fantasies during the day or while you're laying in bed getting ready to go sleep, let your pre frontal cortex OVERRIDE your limbic system and suppress those thoughts. Just think one line to yourself: "Prefrontal Cortex Override" when you find yourself starting to think in that direction. Then turn on some music and maybe try to work out, or if you're at work, focus on whatever you're working on, if you're trying to go to sleep, think about something you're looking forward to the next day like playing a video game, watching a movie, working out, seeing somebody, etc. This item coupled with the significantly reduced masturbation schedule and not watching porn will make a huge difference likely within 2-4 weeks.

    I personally noticed a huge difference within 12-15 days of stopping porn and reducing masturbation to what I noted above as well as trying to control my thoughts. You're going to find that regular girls are going to start feeling MORE AND MORE attractive to you and you'll eventually start feeling a twitch in your pants just watching them walk by and that's when you'll know "you're back". :)

    There is hope. You'll be fine. Just follow what I said, and then based on what you're noticing with your body, maybe tweak that formula as needed to fit you and things will work out fine. I'm getting ready to turn 37 - I'd been watching porn pretty heavily since I was about 19 or 20. I noticed around age 30 or so that I was starting to struggle a little bit staying hard when having sex with my wife but never found this site or yourbrainonporn.com until just a couple years ago so I spent about 4 or so years thinking I just needed more porn, not realizing I was just feeding the problem more. If I can recover, you can, too. :) You'll be fine. Stay optimistic.
     
  18. lbja2

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    No one can guarantee,just persist.