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I'am new here and I need your support

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Shady22, Jan 21, 2019.

  1. Jan 21, 2019 #1
    Shady22

    Shady22 Fapstronaut

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    Hi everybody,

    I'am new here

    I have developed a femdom, cuckold and humiliation fetishes through my last relationship due to several issues being cheated on, low self-esteem and being bi curious.

    5 months ago I broke up with my gf after losing my job, my car too and I went totally broke. That led me to a severe depression so I attended a couple of therapy sessions that helped me to try to get my life back on track again, but then i stopped therapy as I couldn't afford it anymore. 1 month ago I started a new job with a really low salary until I get a better option.

    I'am a porn and masturbating addict and I also was addicted to watch my ex teasing videos. I deleted my porn collection and after many failed trials to quit porn. yesterday I found the nofap community so I took the decision one more time to quit porn & masturbation for good and I hope this time I will succeed with the help of you guys

    thanks,
     
    Shady22, Jan 21, 2019
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  2. Jan 21, 2019 #2
    sizzlingshail

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    Welcome! I am new to NoFap as well, but I am very serious about quitting my PMO addiction and glad you are, too.

    I am sorry to hear about the rough breakup and loss of job. PMO can really catalyze depression, so I am glad you are taking steps to stop. Parting with your porn collection is a fantastic first step. It might also be helpful to write down some specific goals that we can help keep you accountable to and also to help give you laser focus on achieving a challenge.

    Regardless of your goals, best of luck to you! Let's quit for good!
     
    sizzlingshail, Jan 21, 2019
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  3. Jan 22, 2019 #3
    Shady22

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    Thank you. I just don't know what should I do exactly here ? in the forum where should i start
     
    Shady22, Jan 22, 2019
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  4. Jan 22, 2019 #4
    sizzlingshail

    sizzlingshail Fapstronaut

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    I think a good place to start is the Getting Started with NoFap PDF that you can find here:

    https://www.nofap.com/getting-started/

    As for things to do in the forums, everyone is different. There isn't a "do these three things and you are guaranteed to be done with your porn addiction" guide for this, and things that work for some don't work for others. Therefore, I would start by writing down YOUR goals, what YOU want, and why YOU want to be rid of your PMO addiction. Fighting a PMO addiction takes a lot of effort, planning, and discipline.

    For example, I decided to downgrade to a flip phone because I usually get porn from my smartphone. I also got rid of Netflix because I usually just watch trashy shows that lead directly to PMO. I also am dedicated to making a post to my NoFap journal every day. My plan is continuously evolving, but my goal is 90 days PMO-free.

    I don't know how else I want to use these forums, but I find reading others' posts and replying to them refreshing. Not only am I interested in being rid of my PMO addiction, I want to help others as well.
     
    sizzlingshail, Jan 22, 2019
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  5. Jan 22, 2019 #5
    Press on

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    This is great advice. It is important to have a new vision for yourself.

    Welcome to NoFap, you can succeed at this!
     
    Press on, Jan 22, 2019
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  6. Jan 22, 2019 #6
    Retentionman

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    Welcome man
     
    Retentionman, Jan 22, 2019
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