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I'm new here and I really need help.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Rk257, Apr 1, 2019.

  1. Apr 1, 2019 #1
    Rk257

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    Hi everyone!
    I heard about this forum just recently, and I really thank you guys for this supportive environment. I'm new here and really confused where to start reading coz there's a lot of stuff to read. To cut my story short. I have been watching porn and masturbating for the last 13 years that's exactly half my age. I wasted 50% of my age on this hell. I have many problems in my life and only lately that I discovered they are related to my porn addiction. I feel dull all the time. I can't get excited about anything in my life. I have a low self-esteem now. I feel like I can't accomplish anything in my life. I got an erectile dysfunction for the last 2 years. I have a problem maintaining an erection when with a partner, but my penis works just fine when I watch porn. This really made me feel like shit. Lately I have noticed that the size of my penis is decreasing. I haven't got a wet dream for the last 3 years or so. And the worse thing is that I'm losing my sex drive. Can anyone relate to any of these symptoms?! Are these problems reversible? Which type of rebooting challenge do you think it goes best with my situation?

    Thank you
     
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  2. Apr 1, 2019 #2
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    Welcome to the community. What you described is common for us, you're not alone. Take a deep breath and plan this out, keep reading and learning.
    I would suggest the 90 days of no PMO, it gives the best chance at healing in that time, though not everyone is the same.
     
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  3. Apr 1, 2019 #3
    Rk257

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    Thank you so much for the support, mate. I'm officially in. I picked the 90 PM challenge. I hope I can endure this long.
     
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  4. Apr 1, 2019 #4
    Dr. Mario

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    Welcome! I can't speak to everything you asked about, but I can definitely say that your libido should come roaring back after just a few days of abstinence. If you're willing to answer, does your partner know what's going on?
     
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  5. Apr 1, 2019 #5
    Simmingseal

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    Hey, I'm 15 male, I've been fapping for a little over a year, and while I haven't had an actual partener, I have experienced a lack of wet dreams, the dulness, low self esteem, etc

    Many people on this website pair up and have whats caled an accountability partener. They do what the name implies and hold each other accountable. If you want to do that I'd be willing to be your accountability partener. Just let me know and I'll send you a private message.
     
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  6. Apr 2, 2019 #6
    Rk257

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    Thank you for your reply, mate! I'm currently single, but my ex girlfriend knew about it. She wasn't supportive about it, and I don't blame her.
     
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  7. Apr 2, 2019 #7
    Rk257

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    Thank you so much. I would love to have someone to share mutual support and encouragement.
     
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  8. Apr 2, 2019 #8
    Simmingseal

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    Alright! I'll send you a private message and we can talk about our struggles and victories.
     
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  9. Apr 2, 2019 #9
    Dr. Mario

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    Yeah, that doesn't surprise me. Ah well, you've found a supportive community here.
     
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  10. Apr 2, 2019 #10
    Rk257

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    I'm grateful I did
     
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