Porn blockers for iOS?

Try Qustodio out. Also, OpenDNS can be used on tablets without installing software. Heck, OpenDNS can be put on your home router and that will affect all your devices.

http://www.qustodio.com/en
https://www.opendns.com/home-internet-security/

 

The safari restriction I find is good. You have to put in your pin if you want to watch porn, which is a good step to train your brain to say no. If it's intentional and porn, then putting in that pin confirms you're triggered.

 

I am not in favor of any kinds of blocking or stopping yourself.
You shouldn't fight the cravings or resist the temptation.
it's all about the choice you make in the end.

I had used porn filters in my past , but I always failed. there is always holes , from where you can reach pornography.

this game of rebooting is about the attention and focus you have to reboot.
you have to make strong commitment, be honest with yourself.

if triggers , fantasy is showing up , ask yourself whats wrong , why this is happening to me, how can I avoid these things.

avoid dangerous situations.
for example dangerous situation for me , is when I am alone at the home and feeling tempted !
so I have decided to go to library , when I would feel like that and I would be alone in my home.

off course , you can't stay away from home all the time, you have to stay at home alone some times.
so staying alone is not dangerous , staying alone and feeling tempted is dangerous.

don't touch the extremes , because then you would always fail.

you can never porn and masturbate in your life, and that is not extreme. that is normal.
there are people , who don't watch or masturbate.

 

Don't make it easier for yourself to relapse. Install a P blocker. A horny, surged up brain is a dangerous thing.

 

True commitment to this challenge, is not fearing installing software, you think you can't get past.

 

It is a choice but we are addicts. If you think you'll be able to truly change without help you are fooling yourself. Use as much help as you can. Porn blockers are huge for my sobriety. I use the iOS Safari restrictions and have my wife control the password.
Look, not putting a filter on your electronic devises is like not hiding liquor from an alcoholic. If the alcoholic knows there is liquor in the cabinet he will be tempted everyday to take a swing. If the liquor is hidden in a place he knows is hard to find he will not be tempted.

 

I remember when I was your age and I started having this problem. I tried to quit so many times but never was able to. The addiction stayed with me even after getting married. Then my wife found out and my life came crashing down. If I could go back to when I was your age I would tell myself to talk to my parents about it and ask for help.
Yes it will be embarrassing and difficult but they will not stop loving you. Don't give into the belief that no one will love you for who you are. You need their help. You said that you masturbate while they are home and it's "dangerous". Why do you think it's dangerous? Because it's wrong what you're doing and you will get in trouble? That kind of shameful thinking will continue forever unless you get the help you need and realize that you won't be in trouble, that your family loves you and will be willing to help you no matter what.

 

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