its nothing more than the feeling of loneliness

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  1. Abbazad

    Abbazad Fapstronaut

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    Today is my 4th trial to rebooting.
    i have lasted for a month in my first PMO.
    and then relapsed with a shorter PMO period up till today where my PMO is back to days.

    i will seriously and firmly go on a 1 year PMO journey.
    my only issue is that i don't have any means of release for my emotions and loneliness.
    i am soon to be a 30 YO virgin male.
    I am not ashamed about it.
    it might be a religious thing it might be that i wouldn't like the same for my Daughter (in future) or sister to be fooling around with other men so i apply it to myself as well.

    in this attempt i will focus on the mind part of PMO.
    as there are several stages for an idea to become an act and be auctioned i am planning to stop any such idea of relapsing once it is a feeling oppose it if you couldn't then it will become an idea, oppose it, if you couldn't it will become a determination, oppose it, if you couldn't it will become an act, if you didn't stop it it will become a habit which is hard to abandon.

    lets share ideas on ways on how to stop this trail of thoughts that leads to relapse.
     
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  2. Hello and welcome! :)

    We are glad to have you as a part of our community. Here are some quick links to get you started.

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    If you wish to keep a journal of your progress you can do so in the appropriate section found here

    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     
  3. Awedouble

    Awedouble Fapstronaut

    I'm thinking of a twist on the song: "I'm hooked on a feeling - low on believing - that I'm alone with me"..

    By Pmo above do you mean pmo free streaks?
     
  4. Hey & Welcome to NoFap Community! :)

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  5. Abbazad

    Abbazad Fapstronaut

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    yes