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Porn turned me bi?

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by calabacin, Oct 13, 2019.

  1. Oct 13, 2019 #1
    calabacin

    calabacin New Fapstronaut

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    Greetings I'm new here because of my fetish addiction, I've known since all of this for a few months but I took it as a joke. Recently I've been reading about this in Reddit and thought about trying it.

    These last months I found myself watching femboy, twink and sissy porn and joining anime hentai trap etc Discord servers, the worst part is that I've been trying to be one of them... I am a young, slim male and I have no beard nor body hair (I feel so ashamed writing this...) I even made a Grindr and like 30 guys have told me to hook up in total, only to fap and uninstall the app over and over.

    I feel very confused, so I'm gonna try this at least...
     
    calabacin, Oct 13, 2019
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  2. Oct 13, 2019 #2
    SparkySub

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    Being attracted to trans or sissy isn't bi in the first place as you attracted to a woman. Its complex, however I don't think it makes you bi. Porn warps your mind and makes you crave things you don't want. I was almost in that position, but I found NoFap and saved myself.

    Ask yourself this once you've finished fapping. Do you still wanna be a sissy, still wanna have sex with one etc. I asked myself this and I made myself sick...
     
    SparkySub, Oct 13, 2019
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  3. Oct 14, 2019 #3
    Dmcmabe

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    I think as I got deeper and deeper into porn I was looking for more and more exciting stuff, like gay and bi porn. I never hooked up. Before craigslist deleted personals I would take pictures of my junk and post ads. I’d reply back to a few and swapped email stories but when it came right down to it I always chickened out. Looking back now I was just looking for praise. I’ve been married to my 2nd wife for 25 years. She used to tell me how sexy I was yada yada yada. I felt it would be a betrayal to send pics to or communicate with other women but doing with so with men was ok. For awhile I’d really be into gay/bisexual porn then I’d loose all interest. It was a roller coaster ride. It didn’t make me gay or bi.
    Be proud of your body. It’s unique, a one of a kind and it’s yours. Gay/bisexual porn is a trigger. Avoid it and you’ll be ok.
     
    Dmcmabe, Oct 14, 2019
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  4. Oct 14, 2019 #4
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    Hello and welcome! :)

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    There are plenty of wonderful, friendly and knowledgeable people here to help you along on your journey to a life free of PMO. I wish you nothing but the best!
     
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  5. Oct 14, 2019 #5
    calabacin

    calabacin New Fapstronaut

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    Yeah I think you're right, I literally couldn't stop sending nudes and lewd stuff to discord servers in order to get some appreciation, and I think everyone with the same, fetish? also does the same because of that
     
    calabacin, Oct 14, 2019
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  6. Oct 14, 2019 #6
    fedmom

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    My profile has a thread that might help. Definitely do not do anything for real. Sissy fetish is probably the worst possible addiction to have.
     
    fedmom, Oct 14, 2019
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