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Thoughts on dating sites

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Mister_Chamomile, Apr 23, 2015.

  1. Apr 23, 2015 #1
    Mister_Chamomile

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    So, since I quit P/MO (and relapsed last night on MO actually) I started putting in more time into OkCupid. I realize now it was like switching addictions. Trying to find sex/love from "real women" through the internet. Kinda seems like switching from beer to wine now. Maybe you can meet real women and develop a relationship, but at the same time, maybe within "reboot period" it's not a good idea because your values are still "must get a quick fix of sex/love/attachment/dopamine" rather than "I'm interested in developing a genuine relationship with this person based on mutual interests over a long period of time."

    Curious about what others think.

    Someone shared this link with me on my progress journal and I agree with most stuff this guy says by the way:

    http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/index.php?topic=15558.0

    It's not really about "porn," or "days clean" or your counter. It's about redeveloping a new way of looking at life.
     
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  2. Apr 23, 2015 #2
    Vincsl

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    I agree with you, I spent a lot of time on Tinder, managed to meet and pickup some, but now I feel it's time for me to be only with myself, not with my hands though :p
     
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  3. Apr 23, 2015 #3
    Knight Solaire

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    If you want to blare your own misogynistic beliefs, please make your own thread. Because this ^^ is disgusting.


    On another note, I believe you are heading in the right direction friend. Looking for women only for sex is objectifying them. Okcupid is just another site that promotes the whole "single life is fun life" idea that seems to be cool with kids nowadays. That post you read is really inspiring.

    You are here to fix the effects of porn on your brain and following this path you are on. It seems very beneficial. Good luck with your journey friend. There are always going to be people who can't see that they have a problem because of what society has deamed okay and because they don't like change. Stay strong friend.
     
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  4. Apr 23, 2015 #4
    Limeaid

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    LOL! The funny thing about that is that you never end up actually having a fuckfest in Amsterdam with a midget and two 9's (sounds fun in your head though doesn't it?!) ......you just end up sad and alone. Some guys are trying to fix that.
     
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  5. Apr 23, 2015 #5
    Mister_Chamomile

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    Can somebody just ban the death mettle guy? He trolls like every thread with that shit.
     
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