How can one porn addict physically have sex and another can't?

Some people are more prone than others. I grew up playing basketball and I had a friend who didn’t spend half the time I did training my legs to jump, but for some reason his vertical was always superior to mine, it was genetics, he has it that way, I don’t. What did I do? I trained harder and matched his vertical.

You can’t sit around and feel sad for yourself because your stuck in a hole that others are not in. The first step to getting out that hole is to accept yourself and the mistakes you’ve made, address your problem and look for the best solution.

Once you find out what the solution is, and how to get there, make the commitment and never look back.

 

I don't think he's actually addicted, some people use this term without it being accurate
And I think an addict would be kinda ashamed to tell anyone about it, he will actually deny himself being an addict
So I think he may not be addicted, maybe he likes porn and watch it regularly and that's it, most guys do this
Anyway, just focus on yourself because everyone is different, standards vary between people

 

After 15 years of watching porn I still can have sex, even regular. But not in the same way, like other people. I can't get erected by visual look.

 

I am 34, been addicted to porn since I was 17 - only this year I started getting some minor PIED issues, of course I get laid regularly but my erections aren't as firm and hard as they are when watching porn.