Bonsoir tout le monde I have a problem with lesbian porn and I really want to get rid of it but it's very hard. I have not masturbated in front for a few months but I really find it hard to stop looking at it despite the consequences that it has on my brain. Tips ?
Think about what you're doing by watching lesbian porn: 1. You're rewiring your brain to only like lesbian content. If you do it for too long, you're probably gonna face ED as you won't be aroused by a man (you) having sex with a woman. 2. You're supporting the porn industry that exploits young men and women all over the world. More importantly, gay porn sometimes involves people who aren't even attracted to the gender they're having sex with, which is absolutely disgusting. I'm really not trying to shame you into feeling bad because I've certainly been there but these are just some things you should think about before you PMO to lesbian content.
This is a thought-provoking subject. You have seen the evolution of porn over the last 30 years or so; back then, generally the women were skanks, unhealthy, probably diseased, just not "sexy". Fast forward to 2020. There have been some really pretty girls selling their bodies into this business. When you see them being interviewed, I see immature "bodies" without developed minds, souls or normal things that girls go through as they get older. I would like to the see the age of porn workers raised to 21, 18 is way too young and arbitrary for many of them. Most of them are low IQ, after all the average worldwide IQ is around 80, so what do you expect with random girls going into this activity? Menstruation is a limiting factor for girls and sex. A lot of days a month in their periods sex is normally out of the question. So if you have 2-3 girls chances are one of them is going through a period. There are drug and chemical menstruation/period preventers I guess, but the unnatural effect of them kills desire in the women. This just goes to show that a very small percentage of porn is "real", many of them are faking desire. Think about it, it takes a day or two to produce a 25 minute video! The nature of deception is you don't know you are being deceived. Take your porn video into the national forest as I have and view and listen to it there! It becomes totally uninteresting and weird! I am really into reality. Yes I have viewed lesbian porn, because if you have two pretty girls doing oral, it is more of a turn on, but frankly much of this is an illusion. You are left with the same unsatisfying result, whether or not you act out physically the memory overload is too taxing leading to attention deficit disorder which I have been dealing with.
Lesbian porn, whether soft or hard or whatever, is still porn. It really doesn't matter what type of porn you are addicted to, the effects are the same. I am loathe to put down these women - have I not helped support this industry for years and years? Putting them down - or even feeling sorry for them - is not going to help cure your addiction. Make some serious decisions. Get a strategy. Get motivated. Porn doesn't care what your favorite flavour is, porn just wants to fuck up your mind and life.
They are largely just acting for money as exhibitionists. "Gay for pay". Lust for bucks likely enhanced by drugs, marijuana, coke, who knows what else. One of them said her frenzy was like she was possessed. Depression, obsession, possession. None of the absurd sayings about vaginal fluids or seminal fluids giving someone strength, growing hair have any scientific legitimacy. They become more brutish. Traditional behavior worked for a reason. Compare any of these scenes to the noble ones of Jane Austen, and drama like "Sense and Sensibility" which are inspiring, lovely and don't give any bad memories or have shattered and lives plagued by regret.
Maybe because you are jaded; Jane Austen produced great cultural beauty, I don't understand how anyone would fail to appreciate that.
I would way rather be addicted to lesbian porn than most other things, but I know it’s tough either way.
Seeing another guy ream out a girl no matter how well and kindly it is done was not that pretty to me. Two girls with a lot of affection was pretty; but look at the "behind the scenes" and how carefully the 25 minute scene is worked on. Takes two days to get a little time on video. Girls playing with themselves alone for me was pretty pathetic and self-indulgent of them in the solo scenes.
Yah but they effect people differently, for example sissy porn can make you question your sexuality, make you participate in gay activities, make you mutilate yourself, it can physicaly change the way you walk, so yes some porn is worse than others.
This is the problem. It seems that there is something redeemable about lesbian porn. The following are four myths that unfortunately I and others have bought into that makes the term "lesbian" one of the most searched terms on porn-sites. 1) There is no man involved, therefore a woman cannot exploit anther woman. 2) There is no penis so I am not a pervert. 3) As men, we cannot "experience" lesbian porn, so it is not replacing something lacking in our sex lives. 4) As lesbians cannot penetrate (naturally) the experience appears more intimate and less harsh; so what's the harm?